like god forbid people choose words they identify with

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Thank you for posting this, OP. Honestly, you added a perspective to the conversation I didn’t consider earlier.

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then they can identify with the label when they come out, not while they still identify as a cis man! the lesbian label is for women!

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Couldn’t disagree more. Cis men calling themselves lesbians has been an excuse to invade lesbian spaces since forever. If someone realized they’re trans that’s different and there’s no issue in labeling yourself a lesbian. But nobody who identifies as a cis man should be calling themself a lesbian, that’s literally not what the word means

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