Love Island on Yik Yak | "If not cuddling me is worth me being upset tomorrow, fine." "When you say don't wanna touch me it gives me a sense of rejection" "We both did things that were wrong" and all he did was say NO. Yall are defending a manipulative narcissist

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"If not cuddling me is worth me being upset tomorrow, fine." "When you say don't wanna touch me it gives me a sense of rejection" "We both did things that were wrong" and all he did was say NO. Yall are defending a manipulative narcissist

Anonymous 9w

huda is incredibly toxic but i think people are really undermining how manipulative chris was being as well. him being “calm and mature” was actually just him brushing off major problems and then acting completely differently towards her (cold, distant, etc) so of course she’s gonna be asking for more reassurance and feeling more insecure

Anonymous 9w

only the first quote is bad. third quote is valid because he was straight up ignoring her, no communication, and stonewalling is a recognized form of abuse second quote is pretty mature for her. because that is exactly how she’s feeling. she felt that deep feeling of being rejected, unloved and stupid. it’s something she needs therapy to try and heal, definelty isnt healthy, but IF they WERE in a good relationship, that should have been something chris apologized for, and explained that it

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Anonymous

#1 9w

wasnt her, he just really wanted to sleep. or in the moment say anything like “we’ll cuddle tomorrow i cant right now babe”. now because the relationship was so strained in the first place, huda shouldnt have pushed it, but she was being insecure not evil

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Anonymous

#1 9w

Chris has reassured her consistently throughout their relationship. She felt rejected by him not wanting to cuddle in the same way that he felt rejected by her not wanting to kiss him openly. He didn’t try to force her to do that though. Also, in that situation he wasn’t wrong. He told her that he wanted to sleep and she continued pressing it. When men ignore a no and keep pushing something what happens? Why does she get grace for ignore a boundary, ignoring his no?