its literally not… she ended things w him over nothing, all the arguments they had were initiated by her, and he actually TRIED TO FIX THINGS WITH HER. just for her to end it?? dude i wouldnt pick her up either. she’s not a baby but damn does she sure act like one. people giving chris hate for not taking her shit anymore is insane.
how are you gonna tell a woman what she should and shouldnt be comfortable with regarding her own body? thats a weird thing for you personally to hold against her… chris is allowed to feel some type of way about it because it can make them uncompatible, but why do you feel personally affected
but the thing is that she IS touchy in public. we saw that with jeremiah. All that “taking it slow” performative bs she was saying was just to make it LOOK like she was evolving when in reality she was sleeping with chris 3 nights in like she did with Jer. It wasn’t about incompatibility it was about saving face
I’m not shaming how fast she got intimate. I’m saying it’s confusing as fuck for her partner for her to want to sleep with him but not kiss him in public. And then for her to tell the girls he’s not touchy enough or intimate enough for her is crazy when she expressed to him she doesn’t like PDA
i just don’t think that any of the people watching will understand the dynamic, or you may not understand where she’s coming from and thankfully you don’t have to because ur not in a relationship with her. clearly chris wanted to be in a relationship with her so idk who ur even mad/ arguing for rn
because ya’ll refuse to acknowledge any issues with her behavior. she can set boundaries, yes. but then she got mad at chris for setting boundaries when he said he wanted to sleep and she kept getting pushy and telling him she would be mad at him tomorrow because he didn’t wanna be intimate at that moment. that’s manipulation.
you’re saying she got mad but it was simply that chris was willing to compromise on his boundaries while huda was not. why is huda wrong for not bending for someone else? they also were just constantly arguing like i would have also ended it because there were too many problems for a couple that had been together for 2 weeks. you don’t have to be perfect you just have to be perfect for each other and they were just not. and that’s okay. just like amaya found someone who gets her, huda can too.
you’re defending that she can set boundaries but he can’t. you’re defending that she can friend zone him and then still expect him to carry her like a princess. You’re defending behavior that is linked to all the other crazy actions that have happened on her part in the last 6 weeks. it’s insane
chris was more willing to make it work than huda was and i think it’s valid because they were both just unhappy in the couple. this is not a reason for them to not like each other and not be friendly. that’s why they still said nice things about each other in the finally, because it’s just the cordial thing to do
okay let me be extra clear then. im defending her right to set boundaries, from yall hating on her or acting like she’s a problem because of it and im saying chris should have helped her across, even if he didnt carry her, because its the chilvarous thing to do. any other impression you have has been made up in ur head
i think you’re misunderstanding what i’m saying. chris wanted to work on the relationship and huda did not. and that is OKAY. it’s literally the last day like if it was gonna work it would’ve been working by now. and it just wasn’t. chris didn’t HAVE to bend but he wanted to which was nice
i’m so confused on why you’re so mad about this. they both were trying to communicate their feelings and they both came to different conclusions. it’s okay that huda knew what she wanted in a relationship. that’s what dealbreakers are. kissing in public was not a dealbreaker for chris but kissing in the bed was dealbreaker for huda and that’s okay.
so youre still thinking of me? just like i know you would. i cannot give you everything tou know i wish i could. im so high at the moment. im so caught up in this. yeah were just young dumb and broke, but we still got love to give while were young dumb. young young dumb and brokee (you) young dumb, young young dumb and broke (you)