Love Island on Yik Yak | Huda gave us a look at what abuse can look like from a woman. Seeing it play out was upsetting. C and Jer were put in direct fire, not just as targets of emotional abuse, but as black men navigating that dynamic on national tv.

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Huda gave us a look at what abuse can look like from a woman. Seeing it play out was upsetting. C and Jer were put in direct fire, not just as targets of emotional abuse, but as black men navigating that dynamic on national tv.

Anonymous 9w

I hope producers provided mental health support post involvement with her. They deserved protection.

Anonymous 9w

let’s be real she did not emotional abuse chris. you’re telling me you have never gotten into a screaming argument with your partner? she never even yelled at chris, like ur mad because she talked about what she wanted and chris talked about what he wanted it and it was misaligned. like i really do think the hate that huda gets is being blown completely out of proportion, that’s like saying because ace and the boys were uncomfy w amaya that she was doing sexual abuse (she was not).

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Anonymous

#1 9w

sometimes people just don’t get along and that’s OKAY. but she learned whatever she grew who cares

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Anonymous

#1 9w

i have never screamed at my boyfriend of 5 years and he has never screamed at me. it’s not an effective way of communicating. what huda is doing is coercion. If a man said “if you aren’t intimate with me then I’ll be a problem for you tomorrow” everyone would freak (as they should). It’s manipulation

Anonymous

#1 9w

screaming at a man you barely know calling him a pussy as bitch is verbally abusive. Jer did nothing to deserve that behavior from her. she was making everyone in that villa uncomfortable. Chris tried understanding and respecting her boundaries when she laid them out but when he set a boundary saying he wanted to go to sleep she immediately flipped a switch and would not leave him alone.

Anonymous

OP 9w

my ex bf has yelled at me. and i thought that was weird but he told me that his parents used to get into screaming fights. these are learned behaviors and also apart of culture. she was asking for a hug in bed. when my ex used to turn his whole body away from me in bed i’d be like “do even love me” because i associate physical touch with love. that’s just how some people are. you’re saying she wanted to manipulate chris so much but she’s the one that ended it. needs we’re not being met and that

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Anonymous

#1 9w

is okay.

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Anonymous

#1 9w

i’m actually not talking about this i literally don’t care

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Anonymous

#1 9w

Congrats. You are Huda❤️ go join your mentally ill friends, they are waiting❤️

Anonymous

#1 9w

Ouwe, I wonder is this why there’s so many Huda enablers. Oh em gee, please find a way to heal

Anonymous

#3 9w

i hope you have a long and wonderful life because i would never ever associate with you. i don’t stan huda i just understand that human dynamics are not always perfect and people have traits that affect people differently. at the end of the day chris WANTED to be with huda so idek who ur mad for rn

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Anonymous

#1 9w

she counted down for him to turn around and be intimate with her and then basically said that he was digging his own grave if he didn’t. it’s narcissistic and manipulative. If you can’t see that then that’s a you problem because it is clear as day. You obviously do care if you’re typing huge paragraphs

Anonymous

#1 9w

He didn't want to be with Huda, he was quit literally acting poorly on purpose so that she would end things on her own terms because he didn't want to. He was encouraging her to end things during that date, and it worked! He never wanted to be with her, he just thought she was pretty. She has been manipulative from the jump, and he was fully aware going in.

Anonymous

#3 9w

look at what happened to jeremiah when he ended things with her. She crashed the fuck out on him and told him everyone hates him and that it was his fault for everything that happened. I doubt Chris wanted to put himself in that situation