
ok as a white women he is a bitch and she deserves better. the way he is acting is bullshit and him saying they have nothing in common is the cherry on top and clearly shows she was indeed only a safe option for him. he folded the second someone else opened their legs for him and his immaturity while she was trying to have actual conversations w him earlier in the season was actually obnoxious.
Explain pls how having nothing in common with someone equals that she was a safe option and that he never really liked her. When Aniya had sincere and Sean above him, and ultimately ended up staying with KC bc neither pursued her. Also, I’m confused on where the use of the word obnoxious applies, bc looking back at their serious conversations, he was actually pretty receptive and serious with her.
i may have a biased take because i have dealt w men like that in the past so take what i say with a grain of salt. I never said he never liked her, i said she was his safe option. idk why ur bringing up the first pick because she picked him twice (?) afterwards (i can’t remember how many recoupling that she chose him) and wrote an amazing letter to him so his resentment is only due to the first night. also she has had to tell him that she wants to have a serious conversation while he was…
So then OP was right lol. Ppl are applying their dating history with men to their situation. I’m still not sure where the obnoxious behavior has been seen at. And using someone as their safe option 9/10 means that the person doesn’t actually like them and is just keeping them around. Which doesn’t really make sense to me bc if that was the case he would’ve been all over Sol but he was acting hesitant.
I also think that using safe option to describe them makes no sense since the entire premise of the show is to find your strongest connection. I don’t think it’s wrong of him to stick with Aniya since that was his strongest connection. Him exploring doesn’t suddenly mean that he was using her