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Huda apologists, please explain why you dont find her actions concerning for her and others mental health? I am genuinely curious on how some of you can see no wrong and give her no accountability for her actions?
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Anonymous 13w

I do find her actions concerning but at the same time i believe a big part of it is production trying to fit her into their narrative. I think theres a lot of unseen bits and things that jeremiah has done that lead to her acting that way. Doesn’t fully justify her behavior but i still feel like shes being portrayed as much crazier than she rlly is

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Anonymous 13w

My thing is that people are taking it too extreme like yes her actions aren’t justified and it has hurt people but for the public to go after her family and find their accounts and leave all that hate is much worse than what she did. She has a kid who will be impacted by this like if her baby daddy needs to come out and say back off for the sake of my child it is problematic also people tend to forget these are humans too she reacted to her emotions her reaction wasn’t right

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Anonymous 13w

Definitely find it concerning and I do not agree with it but I also am completely against how the viewers are handling it. There’s signs of immaturity all throughout whether it be emotional or not, my issue is you have ONE person at the mercy of thousands of people passing judgement and being highly destructive based off of a fraction of the footage in a show that largely profits off of people with her personality type.

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Anonymous 13w

I haven’t seen anyone not holding her accountable for tripping out but I think it’s possible to be concerned for her and also not be a hater/ want her to do better. Like her feelings were valid but her behaviors were not and tbh that should probably be worked on outside the show, but until she leaves that villa her raw moments will continue to be shown on tv and I don’t think attacking her would help her mental health at all.

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Anonymous 13w

Mental health is NOT an excuse, but an explanation.

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 13w

This is a good take, only thing for me is that she GIVES production this still to paint their narrative. Imo it feels like they saw shes this massive crashout and decided to profit off of it instead of having her step out for her own mental well-being. She very obviously should not be on this show

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 13w

But at the same time it’s a reality show that NEEDS gossip and drama to stay on tv and earn money they are showing what gives them drama and money and these people are not connected to real life at all. People acting all crazy with how she reacted but at the same time forget that this show literally makes them kiss literally everyone in the name of exploring connection within 10 minutes like cmon it’s not real

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 13w

I completely believe in holding her accountable and in no way will her actions be justified but to literally take it tooo such an extreme that hosts are talking about taking back the hate comments so it doesn’t impact them when they leave and to stay off their families pages says how messed up it is

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 13w

Oh yeah taking it to HER POSTS and being just a terrible human back to her is wild and makes them just as bad as her. Her child and baby daddy and family members are real people dont do not control her actions so should not receive hate either. I just REALLY dont like how she reacted to things and talked down to multiple people, then would blame others for her actions or would blame “crashing out”, I believe Belledasha said she took responsibility for her actions at one point but since then +

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 13w

she has not taken any public accountability (on the show) and has only blamed Jeremiah or crashing out on why she acted the way she did. I can kind of see why people think Jeremiah may have been at play for some things, but she shows real signs of not only BPD but DV whether she intends it or not. (ex. Other islanders not wanting to leave Iris alone with her)

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 13w

Also I cannot FATHOM how she is still getting more hate than Yulissa and Austin right now when we are literally going into a war right now due to who they support politically. We have MUCH bigger fish to fry than Huda calling a pussy ass bitch exactly what he is.

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 13w

Okay this I agree with 1000000%!!!! Yulissa got off pretty easy imo, and Austin is lowkey showing his true self w Amaya ESPPPP finding out shes an immigrant then next thing u know hes overwhelmed by her

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 13w

Right!

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 13w

I get this as well, and everyone whos responded to this so far hasnt been like “she did nothing wrong!!! it was all jeremiahs fault he was love bombing her and toxic” which is my biggest issue w a section of huda supporters. i saw on threads people completely ignoring hudas toxic/potentially triggering actions and then commenting how jeremiahs face of literal defeat triggered them

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 13w

I don’t think she did nothing wrong, I just think it’s being grossly amplified. There were plenty of times she did things I didn’t agree with, but I’m also the kind of person that values authenticity and being authentic or true to herself means she’s not always going to be favorable whereas I feel mostly everyone else is being slightly performative because they’re hyper aware that they are being recorded and don’t want to be disliked by the masses.

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 13w

Because well….. look what happens….

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