Anonymous #3 9w

You do not talk to a grown ass adult like that man or woman. They’re not children and he already told her he wanted to sleep. Let him sleep.

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Anonymous #4 9w

that was before he said anything, as a grown ass adult you also shouldn’t just ignore people, they were both wrong

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Anonymous #3 9w

He shouldn’t have had to say anything in the first place. His position alone screamed he didn’t want to do anything besides sleeping. And normally when you speak to someone in the middle of the night and they don’t respond, you assume they’re sleeping and leave them alone. You don’t expect them to tug on your body trying to wake you up because that’s rude and in her case selfish asf.

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Anonymous #4 9w

yes and was being selfish but huda knew he wasn’t asleep i even knew that as a viewer, but i thought we wanted communication? the silent treatment is the “grown ass adult” reaction

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Anonymous #4 9w

yes she was*

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Anonymous #3 9w

He said “ I just wanna sleep” and then she got mad at him for not wanting to snuggle. Is that not communication?

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Anonymous #4 9w

that was after the counting down, she was counting down because he was ignoring her and she knew he wasn’t asleep

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Anonymous #3 9w

If she knew he wasn’t sleeping then why did she feel the need to tug on him and poke at him. Talking to him would’ve gotten the point across, there was no need to touch so there must have been some doubt that he was actually awake. And if she knew he wasn’t sleeping then she was trying to annoy him into a response knowing he didn’t wanna talk.

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Anonymous #4 9w

and that’s where she was wrong, that doesn’t mean he should have ignored her is all that i’m saying, if you want to hold her accountable then you should also hold him accountable. but it’s not out of the normal for couples to touch each other in bed, especially non sexually

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Anonymous #3 9w

But it’s not an unusual thing for the islanders to do. After a disagreement or someone is feeling a type of way and it’s time for bed, they always do the same thing, which is turn away from their partners and go to sleep. And all season no one has had a problem with someone doing that because you can obviously tell they aren’t in the mood to be touchy with them. Why is it that when he does it then it’s a problem?

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Anonymous #4 9w

i’m not saying that’s a problem, but touching him isn’t a problem either it’s the repeatedly touching when you know he doesn’t want that is what the problem is

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Anonymous #4 9w

Also, regardless of it he said “I wanna sleep” in the beginning or after 5 minutes, she clearly was going to have a problem with his answer which is fucked up. He has a right to turn her down and if the roles were reversed this wouldn’t have even been a discussion. He definitely had some moments in this episode where he’s clearly the problem but I don’t think that moment was one of them.

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Anonymous #4 9w

he does have that right i didn’t say he was wrong in that all i’ve been saying is he shouldn’t have ignored her and the post is referring to her counting down which she was doing because he was ignoring her it feels like you’re trying to argue when i’m agreeing with everything you’re saying

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Anonymous #3 9w

Because it seems like you’re trying to excuse what she did when that’s not the way you speak to your partner at all, regardless of if you’re being ignored. I would never do a count down for my partner if they did what Chris did, I’d just leave them alone and talk about it in the morning because they clearly don’t want to speak or do anything. There are some things that you don’t have to spell out to someone and this was one of them.

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