
It’s telling everyone he’s lying to her about wanting to explore, it’s guilting him for being attracted to other women, it’s blowing him off anytime he tried to speak to her when she was mad, it’s leaving in the middle of the conversations, that’s emotional abuse. It’s what my emotionally abusive ex did to me and I see so many similarities between my ex and Aniya
He was lying to her about wanting to explore. One minute he’d saying “I’m good in this connection and wouldn’t want to mess it up”, then with his friends it’s “oh, I want to explore Sol.” Let’s be so fr rn. So she’s supposed to force herself to have a conversation with him when she’s upset because he’s ready to have a conversation? Do you hear how ridiculous that is🥴 She left one conversation abruptly and the second one she literally said okay and walked away. He asked for a hug and she
Didn’t give him one which also isn’t a problem because she doesn’t have to hug him if she doesn’t want to. I’m sorry that you’ve experienced that in life but it seems a bit like projection. Also, KC has literally said him and Aniya have nothing in common, while in the villa he was reassuring her about how good their connection was without even believing it. If anyone’s being manipulative it would’ve been him.
And she literally said “okay” to that. Now how about every other time she asked him about exploring sol. Did he not say that he was good with her and that he didn’t want to go off and be mysterious? She’s even told him to go explore yet he didn’t. Not exploring for KC is literally his own fault and blaming Aniya is so stupid for that. Even if she got upset, that’s literally normal when you have feelings for someone.
He didn’t say he did want to explore, he was telling her he wanted to explore but if it was going to ruin what she and he had, which since the very notion of him wanting to explore Sol brought her to tears is a fair assessment, he wouldn’t. She quite literally was holding him back from exploring because her feelings were too delicate. If Aniya had been more like Bea this wouldn’t have been an issue.
She was crying because he did too much and that was in reference to his “I feel blessed” comment. She legit said “okay” to him saying he wanted to explore. KC is a grown ass man and if he wanted to explore then he would’ve. He also told Sol he wanted to explore but he saw sincere “hooping” so he didn’t. He’s not confident enough to go up again sincere and it shows. KC’s full of shit yet you’re blaming Aniya for having feelings?