Based off what was aired: 1.) Ol admitted she came in w a closed off mind. she said she had an initial attraction to Nic, but lied off bc she didn’t know if those feelings were mutual. 2.) When Jalen came in she stated she noticed the difference in effort Taylor showed w her (1st time doing something spontaneous), still she stood behind the man who valued her less 3.) she only made 2 attempts to try & excite Tay 1st was the plate of food & 2nd was when she was on the chopping block w Clarke.
Back to #1, nic keeps saying how he told Tay how he was attracted to Ol & Tay never had a problem w it. So, if Ol was truthful abt her feelings instead of playing strategically, their time wouldn't have been wasted & nicolandria prob would've alr been established. Like Ol & chel said in the interview, Taylor put in a lot of energy to get to know Ol. Only thing he never communicated abt was physical attraction, but was still interested in her.
Kinda contradicting yourself because you’re saying she stood behind the man who valued her less but at the same time saying that he put in a lot of energy to get to know Olandria and that he was interested in her. Also, she didn’t like Jalen and she said that so he wasn’t really an option for her fr fr. And based on the interview with Miley’s mom she didn’t come on the show with a closed off mindset and even the way she acted on the show showed that she wasn’t closed off.
What abt that is contradictory? At that time Taylor was putting in minimal effort, it wasn’t until after Jalen that he started to put in effort. It’s hard for me to believe she liked Taylor & not Jalen when they have the same qualities that she’s stated she’s liked in Taylor & based on public opinion, j looks better. Then to immediately hop to a fast pace w Nic who doesn’t qualify for at least half of those same things she said she liked in a man.
It’s contradictory because you’re saying that he put a lot of effort into getting to know her and that he was interested in her but then you’re saying she chose someone who valued her less. If he valued her less than how could he put a lot of effort into getting to know her. Also it’s not unusual for someone to step their game up when their partner can be taken from them. Look at how Austin started planning dates for Chelley after Ace did them for her.
And with the Jalen situation she said he was more focused on the physical which she didn’t like and that Taylor was more focused on getting to know her mentally before being physical. And the Nic situation is different because they had weeks of being friends so she didn’t have to do the whole getting to know you stage like with Taylor and Jalen. And imo they were moving fast😭 moving fast in my book was Iris and Pepe and amaya and Bryan jumping into sex after being coupled up for a few days.
This seems like things taken out of context… she’s been saying this all show, she never said she came with a closed mind, she said she’s open to love but that “lover girl” or “feminine open side” like she said, takes a slow burn and some time to open up bc of relationship trauma Being like “he’s cute but idk if he’s for me” is such a common thought, it’s not that deep or like she was obsessing over him and ignored it, or it would have been obvious in casa in more ways than just chemistry
Also w Jalen, they only had like 40 hours together and the villa was wild in the limited time they had (not blaming or shading Huda love her ❤️but those were just the circumstances). She’s emphasized the WHOLE show that she’s a slow burn, how would she develop feelings or trust for Jalen when she barely knows him? At least compared to Taylor where they had 2+ weeks of getting to know e/other. all they had was the beach date which anyone would use to unwind from the drama.
She did come in w a closed mind. She said on Miley’s mom’s interview that she was interested in Nic. She said she wasn’t bc of her skin color, while i understand, this is still her being closed minded. She’s there to explore & get rejected (doubtful). Even after she bit nics face off while being coupled up, she denied herself & kept a closed mind