Anonymous #1 8w

Thats such a bogus exaggeration. I don’t love how she treated Chris at all and was more on his side with things but she did not sexually harass him. There is no evidence that shows that she was trying to get him to have sex. She def just wanted to cuddle/get attention because it was the last night and he was trying to go to sleep before she got back to the room. Did Chris say thats what happened or something?

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Anonymous #1 8w

What do you think accountability would look like in this situation?

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Anonymous OP 8w

yes chris did say she was trying to have sex w him after he explicitly told her that afternoon he wasn’t going to

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Anonymous OP 8w

great question i’ll answer in a min

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Anonymous #1 8w

Chris can say whatever he wants, but we literally saw what happened. She explicitly was asking to be cuddled. Her getting upset was weird, but to call it illegal is insane. I promise you if sexual harassment was taking place, producers would end that immediately as that's a liability and they're literally filming it

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Anonymous #1 8w

Also Chris addressed with her, and she apologized. By definition, that is accountability. It doesn't matter if you don't accept it, you're not the person Huda needs to be accountable to

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Anonymous #2 8w

we did not see the entire thing are you deadass? if it was a man doing what gifs did absolutely but people don’t listen to men who get assaulted a lot of the time christ said we didn’t see the whole thing and she was trying to have sex with him

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Anonymous #2 8w

no just saying sorry isn’t accountability

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Anonymous OP 8w

Ok, so this is what i think huda taking accountability would look like She needs to go an apologize to a lot of people but primarily, jeriahmiah, amaya, iris, and chris And her apology needs to look like this, “hey i did xyz to you, and that was wrong. sure, there are things that led me to act that way towards you but ultimately, those things don’t change the fact that i should not have spoken to you, said about you ect, that way. I am sorry for how my actions may have hurt you, and i-

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Anonymous OP 8w

recognize that i need to do better when it comes to xyz and in the future i will react differently” and if huda did that i genuinely would be a fan ofc the chris situation would need to be addressed differently but yeah

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Anonymous #1 8w

Somebody wanting to have sex with their partner isn't sexual assault either. Even if Huda wanted to originally have sex, she evidentially accepted no as an answer and asked to be cuddled instead. As we can literally see in the video. Your refusal to accept this is seriously weird like why do you want Chris to be a victim so bad? Would that make you feel better? Do you like when people are sexually assaulted?

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Anonymous #1 8w

"Just saying sorry isn't accountability" Again... you are literally not the person to determine that. Huda is only accountable to Chris in this circumstance, and they made their peace and he accepted it. By definition of the word accountability, one is to take responsibility for their actions, and she did exactly that by acknowledging what she did was wrong in an apology. If you don't want to accept that, that's irrelevant as you're not the one who is owed it. Stop being weird

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Anonymous #2 8w

calm down first of all, what you are saying is very attacking and strange, and honestly crazy to say bc i am a survivor of SA chris said in the podcast that earlier in the day he made it EXPLICITLY CLEAR TO HER that he would not be having sex w her as it made him uncomfortable to do so. he set a very clear boundary with her and she crossed it and that’s not ok. she should have just left him alone anyways bc they were only going to get 2 hours of sleep

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Anonymous #2 8w

no just saying sorry has never been accountability that’s not how that works it’s not situational or something how do you know they have made peace? it doesn’t seem like it to me since she’s going and dragging him online and basically saying it was all his fault you need to calm down bc you seem WAY too invested in this

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Anonymous #2 8w

also i wasn’t even talking to you i was talking to OP bc they asked me so your opinion here is irrelevant

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Anonymous #1 8w

You are an extremely odd individual. I urge you to seek counseling and stop projecting your experiences onto strangers you watch on television

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Anonymous #2 8w

are you serious lmao? tell me what the correct term is then for huda explicitly crossing a sexual boundary that chris set enabling coercion and diminishing a man’s experience w that is insane i think you need to seek therapy bc clearly you don’t know much about boundaries

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Anonymous #1 8w

I can guarantee that this is a stretch, but in this hypothetical scenario that Huda asked to have sex with Chris who made it "explicitly clear" prior in the day that he didn't want to, that would be called weird and annoying. Crossing a boundary, yep maybe. Coercion and sexual assault? No. Why? Bc when Chris hypothetically turned her down, Huda asked to be cuddled instead & that's where you see her 321-ing bc he was just ignoring her. She didn't coerce or threaten him to do anything SEXUAL

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Anonymous #1 8w

And on the topic of boundaries, where is the same energy for Chris getting upset with Huda because of her boundary for not wanting to kiss him in public?

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Anonymous #2 8w

if i say “im not having sex w you” and then you start touching and xyz to try and seduce me that is wrong it’s not a hypothetical situation it’s reality and he has full right to ignore her when she was crossing his boundaries and just wanted to sleep counting him down was incredibly condescending and rude no matter what the context if you want to look past blatantly obvious signs of coercion that’s on you and i wish you the best but i’m not giving any more time to someone who’s invalidating thi

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Anonymous #2 8w

bc he didn’t try and cross that boundary he just said he didn’t understand hope this helps!

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Anonymous #1 8w

Chris getting upset about Huda's boundary and not understanding it is literally because he wanted to cross it. Your argument is invalid. You can call Huda weird and manipulative for her behavior, but whatever she did was literally not sexual coercion nor sexual assault. Stop trying to victimize people you don't even fucking know oh my god

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Anonymous #1 8w

In fact, Huda asking to be cuddled INSTEAD is clear evidence that she respected his boundary to not have sex. Might rub you the wrong way because you seem to want to be rubbed wrong, but that's literally what a court of law and any sane person with the ability to critically think would say.

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