
It was dehumanizing! Like yes it was meant to be sexual but the whole point of it was to allow the casa girls to be in control so it was very gross how the guys immeditely assumed they could be extremely handsy with them before the women could initiate it. The whole point of even receiving a “lap dance” is that the receiver isn’t in control and they go with the person giving it to them. To assume that someone isn’t entitled to basic boundaries and respect because they are casa girls is gross
the dressing like that is kinda the culture of the show … just bc people are dressed provocatively doesn’t mean it’s appropriate it like dehumanize them? also these are women they’re exploring connections of romance with so like sexualizing them okay but talking to them like “go to work” and stuff just came off gross to me