Anonymous #3 4w

BOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO

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Anonymous #2 4w

seriously tho, at the end of the day we’re all just humans who make mistakes and say stuff we can’t take back. you have no right to say anything on her bc i can guarantee you’re not perfect either. maybe she’d actually be better as a person if people weren’t dragging her, spreading hate doesn’t make the world a better place. it’ll only make the hate grow

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Anonymous #3 4w

She’s just a SAer 😔

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Anonymous #3 4w

That’s not what you said tho what you said was “she’s just a girl” which is an insufferable ideal that lowkey sets women back we aren’t just bumbling idiots who can’t be held accountable you absolutely should be calling out bad behavior when you see it bc often times people don’t change if everyone is making excuses for them if she had actually like apologized for anything in a REAL way then i would have no reason to dislike her

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Anonymous #4 4w

exactly bro like it’s not like she just whoops tehee made a mistake

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Anonymous #4 4w

she is?

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Anonymous #3 4w

Attempting to force someone for sex/affection and threatening retaliation is SA honey.

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Anonymous #1 4w

having empathy for someone doesn’t mean rewarding bad behavior

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Anonymous #2 4w

So you think shes just an irredeemable person?

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Anonymous #2 4w

holding someone accountable doesn’t mean harshly punishing them or condemning them

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Anonymous #4 4w

I strongly disagree that she SAed anyone and I think its harmful to frame it that way because there are actual instances of SA that will get taken less seriously when we just start calling anything SA

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Anonymous #4 4w

1. you’re absolutely correct but i wasn’t aware of this bc im not over analyzing every single thing she does like some of you unemployed demons. 2. try to be less of a condescending cunt, honey. 😘

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Anonymous OP 4w

of course not! you can be a reformed huda

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Anonymous OP 4w

We’ll say attempted SA since she didn’t get away with it. But imagine if chris did the same thing i know for a fact he’d get cancelled faster than you can blink

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Anonymous #3 4w

1. Wasn’t overanalyzing bc it was obvious and disgusting the first time I saw it 2. Ooh did i push a button? Sorry honey 😢

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Anonymous #4 4w

I guess thats true that he would get way more backlash but I still don’t think she was trying to coerce him into doing anything sexual. From what I saw, she was expecting to cuddle or talk or something since it was the last night and they got into the finale and she was upset cause he didn’t even acknowledge her when she got back to the room. I didn’t love how she handled it & think she probably should have just let him be but i don’t think it seemed like attempted SA

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Anonymous OP 4w

well chris went on a podcast to say that scene was cut up and he 100% was initiating sex and also he had explicitly told her the day before that he was not comfortable having sex w her

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Anonymous OP 4w

I cant believe I have to say this since im on a college age app but her actions aren’t excuseable bc she isn’t a man??? Like literally… I’d have more respect if you acknowledged what she really did and said you still liked her… like denying it outright is actually harmful

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Anonymous OP 4w

Huda Defenders 🤝 Using empathy as an excuse

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Anonymous #1 4w

omg

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Anonymous #2 4w

Okay well I didn’t know that

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Anonymous OP 4w

well no worries now u do and you can see why people really don’t fuck with her

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Anonymous #2 4w

What podcast was it? Cause i can’t find anything where he said she was trying to initiate sex. He just said she was trying to cuddle and he didn’t want to

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Anonymous #1 4w

I don’t think its an excuse. If she were confronted about what she did that was harmful and showed she understood and showed willingness to change her behavior in the future, then I don’t understand what the issue is. I am open to seeing your perspective too but i still don’t get it

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Anonymous OP 4w

I'm all for having empathy, but that's usually for when a good person does questionable things. Hudas problem is that, at heart, she just isn't a good person and sure I feel sympathy that she was born that way? I guess? But I don't think I feel empathetic because I personally don't understand why she's so insufferable.

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Anonymous OP 4w

It's weird that there are people all over who could act like her and be deemed as an awful person but for some reason.. Huda will "change" and "grow" as a person and everyone is just waiting for it to happen happily. I don't know, just kind of confusing. Like maybe in 10 years she'll be better? I just don't understand why she's getting the fame now when she's the same person as she was before and during the show

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Anonymous #1 4w

I guess I understand where you are coming from and why you would see it that way because I didn’t agree with the way she handled things/probably wouldn’t have handled things the same way and I get why people are annoyed with her, but I think the difference is that I don’t see her as a fundamentally bad person.

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Anonymous #1 4w

I think that having people turn on you like people turned on her can just make growth and holding herself accountable even harder because she will just see all the hate as unfair and then not take any criticism seriously. I think it helps a lot more if people are open to being forgiving/understanding as well as holding her accountable

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Anonymous OP 4w

and i think Cierra and Hannah were doing that where they were open to understanding/forgiving and said they could relate to her but also held her accountable

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