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Love Island 9w
As much as I hate huda when has crying ever been manipulated.Cause I cry in stressful moments, anger, and more so I’m confused. When has crying ever been weaponized, not everybody can hold back their tears.And there’s nothing wrong with crying as an adult
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Anonymous 9w

I hate the idea of crying being manipulation. Like yes some people could do that, but crying is a human emotion that naturally occurs when you’re upset or sad. And it’s pretty hard to fake cry real tears. So if tears are actually falling, it’s not manipulation

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Anonymous 9w

Mostly when y’all say she a grown woman this and that. Like what’s wrong with being emotional.

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Anonymous 9w

i mean crying has absolutely been weaponized there’s multiple phrases abt this

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Anonymous 9w

I mean have you only cried when black people say stuff to you or do you cry all the time when confronted? Because that’s the difference.

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 9w

Exactly!! Cause even if the girl didn’t cry they’ll say she doesn’t care or she doesn’t even have any emotions like what

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 9w

For some ppl yes but nb can understand how you feel except you. We have no say on why she’s crying but her. You can’t always hold your tears back. When nb understanding where I’m coming from or seeing what I’m seeing I cry bc you can only tell ppl so much for them to still not believe you.

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 9w

I’m black so most I talk to are black. But when you say confronted it really depends on the situation. I’ve got confronted so many times by my family bc of a situation between me and my siblings and cried bc they thought I did something when I didn’t and they still didn’t believe me but took my other sibling side

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 9w

Sorry to hear that happened to you but what I meant was just people pulling her for a chat and talking to her.

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 9w

What I notice is that anytime Chelley or Olandria said something to her, she’d start crying and what they said wasn’t even mean but at the same time Nic can tell her to her face that he thinks she should’ve been kicked off the island and their are no tears in sight. Hannah can come to her and say hey it hurt to see you pull Pepe without even saying something to me when I’ve been here for you all the time and still no tears. It seems selective and it’s like a pattern.

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 9w

I personally don’t think she was weaponizing her tears. Like between the whole Jeremiah situation I think half the time she cried was bc ppl weren’t seeing her side of things. Cause at the end of the day nb knows what goes on in a rls but you and only you and that other person knows what conversation was had. Bc ofc ppl would think the most defensive and outspoken person is the problem starter bc the other person was calm and not as direct or maybe im wrong but thats what i feel happened

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 9w

I personally thinks she does like there’s a pattern of behavior and that’s weird. I don’t mean to put regulations on crying because there shouldn’t be any but it’s just been weird watching when it’s only done towards one group of people. Like I never say anything about Amaya because she literally cries at anything and it’s not done in a way that makes you forget the actual purpose of the situation.

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