Literally and it’s pissing me off bc both of them are losing meaning because people have this all or nothing mindset. For you to be a girls girl u have to be nice and sweet all the time even if it’s at your own expense and it does take much to be a mean girl all u have to do is express how u feel and if it hurts someone’s feelings your mean and don’t deserve anything good. Humans are literally so much more complex than this, there’s so much more duality to these situations.
And then the fact that we literally not seeing everything and then everything we are seeing is an edited version like come on yall calm the tf down everybody from every side and angle. Like this was supposed to be entertaining not a damn psychological, morals and ethics war. This is why I need to stay off the think pieces bc it makes my brain hurt I just want to enjoy it. The islander themselves aren’t even make this as hard of a watch as the other viewers and their commentary