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Why doesn’t Huda just say I have a daughter instead of going I’m a mom I’m a mom I’m a mom
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Anonymous 14w

It’s funny you say this because there is a subtle psychological difference between saying “im a mom” and “i have a daughter.” Saying mom means the person sees the relationship as their identity and very role-based; on the other hand, saying daughter stresses the connection to the person rather than who they are. So “I’m a mom” is very sense of purpose and “I have a daughter” is very individualistic.

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Anonymous 14w

However I will say her saying “I’m a mommy” 3x in a row while talking to a grown man was kinda cringe to listen to lol

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 14w

That’s a valid point but I see it more as her saying she’s a mom because she’s being proud that’s her role now and embracing her being a “mom”. Just to give a viewpoint of a different side I don’t think we should be judging just based on her wording that’s a bit nitpicky

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