Anonymous #1 6w

Okay I strongly dislike her as a person. I would rather die than have a friend like her. She's so incredibly male centered and genuinely doesn't care about anything else. She was a bully on the show, and she's still an insufferable pick me outside the show. She never showed growth, and her fans are all little kids who encourage bad behavior, which she's too dumb to see. She thinks that everything she's done is justified.

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Anonymous OP 6w

Agreed. I was hoping that when she got out she would see the problems ppl had with her and at least try to change, but she has so many fans excusing her behavior that I don’t see any kind of growth in her future which is sad. And what doesn’t help is she’s with a man that’s going to do nothing but embarrass her.

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Anonymous OP 6w

I think you're a tad weird to hate somebody this big when you don't actually know them. She had her faults, but she was bullied too. Nobody in that villa was perfect. I also would never want her as a friend because she is male-centered, but I can definitely understand why she is the way that she is. If anything, I just feel bad for her. You should wish her help and healing instead of blindly hating a girl who obviously has some issues to work through

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Anonymous #2 6w

That's my experience. I am the type to predict if someone is good or bad at first glance, and I always happen to be right 🤷‍♀️

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Anonymous #3 6w

Well yes she's super messed up mentally but she doesn't care enough to do anything about it so why would I respect her

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Anonymous OP 6w

Again... you literally don't know her to determine what she's doing for herself in her personal time. All you see are clips of her on TikTok and an edited reality show where the premise is for them to be isolated on an island and sleep deprived

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Anonymous OP 6w

I say the same thing about myself, yet I don't hold this type of judgement. Weird

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Anonymous #3 6w

Weird how every clip seems to be a bad one

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Anonymous #3 6w

Seems like you always try to find the good! Not a bad thing but leads to getting your hopes down a hell of a lot

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Anonymous OP 6w

Trust I'm 100% one to ruminate in the bad and always think the worst... but I'm also one that can tell when someone is truly a BAD person or if they're just misunderstood and a product of their environment. Intent means everything, and you can tell Huda's wrongs were never rooted in maliciousness but more so in just having strong emotions and a lack of awareness

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Anonymous #3 6w

She definitely did things that had obvious malicious intent unfortunately

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Anonymous OP 6w

Like

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Anonymous #3 6w

Tell Iris that Jeremiah doesn't like her or find her attractive in public for one

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Anonymous OP 6w

What were the signs in ep 1 tho?

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Anonymous OP 6w

Again, she has her wrongs, but I still wouldn't say that came from a place of pure malice. She was clearly hurt and acted out on strong emotions. I think it was more so to "expose" Jeremiah than it was to hurt Iris. Hurt people hurt people

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Anonymous #2 6w

U can like her as a person in general without condoning her toxic behavior and creating false narratives to try and justify them, everyone is an extreme on the Huda spectrum

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?? no you can’t lmao mind you huda we have sooo many clips of her shit talking girls behind their backs and also lying to everyone’s face lmao

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Anonymous #2 6w

I've seen past friends exhibit similar "pick me" sentences consistency, I could clock early on that things were going to go south. She acts really similar to a lot of people, usually people that I will befriend out of pity due to them constantly saying "I have no friends and I don't know why" yet there's always a reason

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Anonymous OP 6w

I am an incredibly observant person and I don't expect everyone to be, I'm just good at predicting after picking apart sentences and looking at body language. It's okay if you guys don't do that lol I just can't help myself. I would watch over the first episode again if that's helpful but

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I sincerely hope you find a friend like Huda❤️

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Anonymous #2 6w

Everyone is a product of their environment. That doesn't mean that we get to excuse their actions. She might act like that due to other issues but that's really not my problem to understand her deeper. She is a grown adult and has a child, it's not my job to study her personality in order to be accepting.

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Anonymous OP 6w

That’s true but empathizing/understanding is different from enabling and I think ppl that like her would want her to grow out of her toxic sides 😭

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Anonymous #2 6w

Of course she should grow out of her toxic side but so should many many people that I've unfortunately been involved with and people donttttt change that fast. She will probably finish maturing in her 30s and I cannot be asked to wait around, all so I can say she's grown

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Anonymous #2 6w

i just don’t think you should empathize without equally holding her accountable like i absolutely understand and empathize that she had some fucked shit happen to her however that doesn’t mean i’m going to be her fan and defend her when people are rightfully calling out toxic immature frankly obnoxious behavior

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Anonymous #5 6w

I mean that’s kinda my point, u can empathize w people (as in feel for their feelings) and understand where they come from WITHOUT enabling her acting like that on said feelings. It’s kinda scary how many people can’t differentiate

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Anonymous #2 6w

i think the majority of people that call her out DO empathize with her and then they express a negative view of her and everyone acts like you just committed a cardinal sin

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Anonymous OP 6w

Girl let's get off the high horse 😭 I'm literally in graduate school right now studying to become a LPC. I can guarantee I have more experience in reading people and picking apart their sentences as I have to professionally do it in my day to day.

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Anonymous #5 6w

You can absolutely emphasize with people while holding them accountable. But what's incredibly weird is that you all feel some sort of righteousness about her when you actually have no idea who she is as a person outside of a reality show that is designed to make people act outside of their normal character.

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Anonymous #3 6w

i mean none of the other ppl were doing what she was doing

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Anonymous #3 6w

I could totally tell you what I dual majored in plus what I'm getting my masters in now if you wanted, but I didn't know that you had to be college level educated to qualify for the trait of being observant. You have absolutely no idea what experience I have 😁

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Anonymous #5 6w

Let's reread what I just said

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Anonymous OP 6w

Reread what you said prior and Imk if that genuinely sounds like it would come from somebody with a high emotional intelligence. You literally were the person acting like the act of observance is a special ability. And considering your take on Huda, it's not looking like you're all too good at it — you're basing your opinion off of what happened superficially and ignoring the fact that she's on a reality show designed to make people act out of their character

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Anonymous #3 6w

you said it’s designed to make ppl act poorly but what i’m saying is she’s the only one who acted like that so clearly it’s possible to keep it together i don’t really feel self righteous i frankly just didn’t like her much

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Anonymous #3 6w

i feel like having high emotional intelligence is a direct correlation to not being a huda fan it doesn’t matter what the show is designed to do huda was still hard to watch and annoying and that does not excuse her behavior or her lack of apologies after she left the show! that’s what honestly did it for me

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Anonymous #5 6w

Having a high emotional intelligence also comes with the ability to understand nuances and be empathetic. You don't have to be a Huda fan to do that. But my point was that OP's "I'm sooo observant not everybody can be" is just hubris

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Anonymous #3 6w

You're literally just wrong on every single level- RIP to all that money you wasted on tuition. Having the ability to be empathetic towards Huda is just ignorant optimism. I don't blindly only see good in people who are more bad than good. Sorry!

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Chelley quite literally was just being a normal person. And when she was "fake", it was to Huda. And Huda clearly deserved it considering everyone on that damn island obviously didn't like her

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Anonymous #3 6w

I feel like I also need to state too- being observant is NOT as common as you'd think. I've been put in way too many situations where I'm the only person who notices when someone is uncomfortable. Again, you're just being an optimist which is fine, but you've GOT to start thinking both rationally and realistically at some point

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Anonymous OP 6w

I really hate to be the bearer of bad news, but not only are you clearly not emotionally intelligent, you are also just straight dumb. I'm not sure if you even know what empathy means. You're an incredibly odd individual

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Anonymous OP 6w

Please just stop talking. I'm the opposite of an optimist. YOU are the one that needs to start thinking both rationally and realistically. Oh my god.

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Anonymous #3 6w

Hahaha whatever you say big dawg. Maybe get a PhD on your way out, you clearly need it 😝

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Anonymous OP 6w

In class, we study people like you ⭐️

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you’re actually just wrong seeing as we saw w our own eyes when huda was cussing out girls behind their backs and there are literally “huda lying” compilations like be so serious 💀

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Anonymous #3 6w

i mean to be fair, working retail and fast food (aside from my psych degree) proves that people are actually WAYYYY less observant then you would think the average intelligence is unfortunately way lower then you may think

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Anonymous #5 6w

Thank you love you

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Anonymous #5 6w

To be fair, it’s not that people are incapable of noticing (though I do feel like a good amount can’t unfortunately), but it’s more that it’s not really healthy to be that hyper aware and analytical of EVERYONE, that just gives u anxiety, not stronger analytical skills, I think both are two different things! 🤍

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Anonymous #5 6w

The way in which OP said she's observant completely gave off arrogance and straight hubris. I know the majority of people aren't all there, and my girl is a representation of that 😭 I've worked in the restaurant industry for 6 years and my job now requires me to read in between the lines and observe behavior... I know all about it trust

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Anonymous #3 6w

I apologize for my ego ⭐️ I'm just awesome what can I say ⭐️

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