Anonymous #1 9w

Literally. They think it’s “not a big deal” because it’s just cuddling, but if someone turns you down then you should respect that shit.

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Anonymous #3 9w

it is coercive like textbook definition of attempting to coerce somebody

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Anonymous #3 9w

“If not cuddling me is worth me being upset tomorrow. That’s the battle you’re picking so congratulations.” Is the same as saying “if you don’t do what I say right now then you’re not going to like me tomorrow” Those are threats. They might not be overly violent ones but they still matter. He said no and that should have been enough for her. Instead she tried to persuade him into doing something he didn’t want to do.

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Anonymous OP 9w

Im sorry for whatever happened to you and I had no intentions of offending anyone, but by definition she did try to coerce him into doing something he didn’t want to do. And I said “how would you feel if you were in that situation” because sometimes it’s easier for people to understand something when they put themselves in the other person shoes. Especially when situations like this aren’t often taken seriously when it’s happening to a man.

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Anonymous OP 9w

not to mention after he turned her down she said we can JUST cuddle then meaning she likely was trying to initiate sex

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Anonymous #4 9w

Ewww that’s even worse. Trying to persuade someone to have sex with you is beyond gross.

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Anonymous OP 9w

if you watch him talking to bryan abt them having sex too he literally says “yeah i folded i couldn’t say no that many times in a row” ie she had been trying to seduce him alr for like days or smthin

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