Anonymous #3 9w

mb sa wasnt the right term, but threatening to have an attitude the next day if he didnt touch/cuddle her and counting down from 3 is not okay. no means no. stop defending that behavior its weird

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Anonymous #1 9w

bruh they did not defend huda they called her pushy. people are mad you’re spreading a false narrative of what sa is. please gain some reading comprehension skills 😭

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Anonymous #2 9w

when did i say it was sa?

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Anonymous #1 9w

im not defending huda whatsoever. it was very weird. but she wanted cuddles. so just be careful with wording next time!

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Anonymous #2 9w

she wanted to have sex. chris said it in an interview. she literally said herself in that clip ok then can u at least cuddle me.

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Anonymous #3 9w

i mean yeah i agree. i dont think i worded it weird tbh. wanting cuddles or physical touch is okay. coercion is not

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Anonymous OP 9w

Okay so she wanted to have sex and she took no for an answer. So then she asked to be cuddled. She wasn't upset because he said no to that, she was upset because he was deliberately ignoring her. Not quite sexual assault

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Anonymous #4 9w

she didn’t take no for an answer tho he told her the day before that he did not want to be intimate w her till she felt like more comfortable w pda and she was still trying to have sex w him that night and kept poking him after he told her “let me sleep” keep in mind they had 2 hours TWOOOOO HOURS to sleep that night and that was it

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Anonymous #3 9w

no she was trying to initiate sex and then said she would settle for cuddles

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Anonymous #5 9w

And....

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Anonymous #4 9w

and he said no… and she kept trying to get him to have sex w her… which is harassment

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Anonymous #5 9w

after he said no she switched it to cuddling. and it is harassment, its emotionally manipulative, controlling, annoying, and couldve been scary. she is not a sexual predator though.

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Anonymous #6 9w

i didn’t say she was a predator i was literally just saying it was absolutely sexual harassment

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Anonymous #5 9w

she stopped asking for sex the first time he said no. she asked him to cuddle her and i bet she even wouldve settled for any acknowledgement from him at all. he had just hurt her nose and buried himself in pillows after. he was ignoring her and she reached out for comfort cause she already felt ignored, and when he blatantly ignored her, she got childish and controlling. she was not demanding for him to touch her, she was demanding acknowledgment. if u go back and watch, the 321 part was c

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Anonymous #5 9w

genuine question what does sexual harassment even look like in a relationship it’s more of legal term used in relation to the workplace or school. i think there’s times in relationships where you guys are going to not want sex and may compromise by cuddling and wanting a response and being bratty about it is weird and not good for the longevity of a relationship but how does it fall under the term sexual harassment

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Anonymous #2 9w

this is what i found when first googling it

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Anonymous #6 9w

clipped, and it was after the tapping. it wasnt a “u have three seconds to cuddle or have sex with me” it was “ik youre awake you have 3 seconds to respond to me”

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Anonymous #2 9w

agreed. its regular harassment because shes harassing him/ bothering him awake. but sexual harassment is different. what she did is something toxic in relationships (weaponizing being mad at them tmrw for them not doing smth u want, and trying to wake up ur partner like that) but people have taken it too far with the “what if roles were reversed!!” cause they saw it on tiktok and it weakens the definition (and therefore seriousness of the term) sexual assault/ sexual harassment /sexual abuse

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Anonymous #6 9w

but he told her earlier that he didn’t want sex

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Anonymous #5 9w

and then she didnt ask for sex again

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Anonymous #6 9w

no i mean like in the day time before they went to bed he told her he wasn’t comfortable being intimate w her bc she didn’t want the pda and then later that night she tried to initiate

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