Anonymous #2 5w

no i mean this is like very obviously parasocial behavior let’s be serious rn lmao this is very clear hyper emotional investment in people who don’t actually know this person, assuming things about their character that they don’t know, and actively feeding on negativity against them.

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Anonymous #1 5w

literally like babe calm tf down lol

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Anonymous OP 5w

This was at the height of the show. It’s called interacting with media silly!

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Anonymous #2 5w

It’s still parasocial silly!! interacting w the show doesn’t mean you should be calling REAL PEOPLE “stupid fuck ass bitches who need to suck a dick” that is OVERLY emotionally invested. period full stop. and that’s what parasocial relationships look like if they had just said “i don’t like the way chelley is acting it really puts me off” it would be fine but no this absolutely crosses a line and now you’re deflecting if you posted it or something you can go ahead and say that

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Anonymous OP 5w

This response is really long. Kinda parasocial if you ask me

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Anonymous OP 5w

(What you sound like)

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Anonymous OP 5w

I’m just irritated by this post because of the context of it. People have been calling out the parasocial behavior of fans picking apart every single one of Huda’s interactions with people outside the villa (aka, the show is over. Move on), yet suddenly everyone on here started saying “that’s not what parasocial means!” Then you post this? If the Huda shit isn’t parasocial, then this definitely isn’t.

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Anonymous #2 5w

Huda followers always sound like brats who can’t make a mature point lmao

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Anonymous #2 5w

You posted it huh lmaoo

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Anonymous #1 5w

As you ignore the point of this comment… If picking apart Huda’s interactions after the show is over isn’t parasocial, how tf was this post made during the height of the show “parasocial”

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Anonymous #3 5w

I didn’t even upvote it silly

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Anonymous #2 5w

If u use ur observational skills u would realize we commented at the same time… and yes it doesn’t matter when they posted it parasocial is parasocial at any time. Saying someone “thrives” off putting someone down is simply delusional behavior. You dont know these people!

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Anonymous #2 5w

You’re defending it tho, it’s giving sus

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Anonymous #3 5w

It had 495 upvotes 🤯 Take it up with the majority of the people on here

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Anonymous #2 5w

So 495 weird ppl on the app? Fork found in kitchen

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Anonymous #2 5w

if you can’t express yourself well or get intimidated by 5 sentences you can just say that babes. nice deflection tho that person was still very parasocial

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Anonymous #2 5w

also to respond to your “irritation” comment, saying “grown ass woman” is not calling someone a “stupid fucking ass bitch who needs to suck a dick”. if you think those 2 things are equal you need a serious reality check!

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Anonymous #2 5w

also there’s just a general difference between looking at the things someone has been doing and cussing someone out and saying derogatory and mysoginistic things the fact that your response is not to say “yeah this post is weird as hell” is both very strange and telling

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Anonymous OP 5w

you guys know that not everything is black and white? all of yall are parasocial. caring so much about making a point on an anonymous app where people just talk to talk to the point you had to find a post from 5 weeks ago is just as insane as the poster 😭

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Anonymous #4 5w

honestly. like i thought the repost of something over a month ago is quite odd. go outside or something OP😂

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Anonymous #4 5w

you do understand you can sort by “top” right💀💀💀 you have to scroll down like 2 seconds to find this it’s quite easy

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Anonymous OP 5w

you’re missing the point. it was still odd to repost something from over a month ago. regardless of how “easy” it was to find

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Anonymous #4 5w

Yeah not knowing you can see the top posts like holy reach. Also NO not everything is paradoxical y’all are just proving you don’t know what the word means lmao

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Anonymous #6 5w

Everyone else is using it more correctly than OP

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Anonymous #5 5w

why is that odd this was a weird ass thing for anyone to post, and i don’t see how me saying “hey this was weird asf and super nasty of you” is weirder then sitting down and typing all of that out and hitting post like let’s be serious rn

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Anonymous #2 5w

So it’s “more correct” to say “grown ass woman” is parasocial then cussing someone out and wishing weird mysoginistic things upon someone you DONT KNOW is You are just wrong and I have a bachelors in psych I’m sorry

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Anonymous #2 5w

yeah you just deluded. if sb said this about huda im sure you would think its parasocial

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Anonymous OP 5w

had you reposted it when they posted it or idk maybe a week max later, then no it’s not odd. but it’s been a month. the show is over. move on. you sat there and sorted posts to find a post just to prove a point and you don’t think that’s odd?

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Anonymous #5 5w

i saw someone else repost this like less then 24 hours ago 😵‍💫😭 that’s where i found it from that’s just not the issue at hand here i fear

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Anonymous OP 5w

and them reposting it is odd too😭 like you can’t be serious. y’all don’t have anything better to do besides find old ssa posts and repost them?

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Anonymous #5 5w

maybe they don’t but i wouldn’t know you got nothing better to do then respond so i don’t see why you are so upset abt it 😭

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Anonymous OP 5w

People were posting this shit during the season. Because she was being fucking crazy on the show. Not parasocial to interact with media. It is parasocial to pick apart people’s lives outside of a tv show lol

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Anonymous OP 5w

sure don’t bc i work full time and the weekend is my “break”😂

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Anonymous #2 5w

(I was talking about people posting this type of stuff about Huda because she was being fucking crazy during the show. That context got lost because yall keep yapping)

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Anonymous #2 5w

People saying this to Chelley is still incredibly parasocial timing does not matter or make it better

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Anonymous #5 5w

i do too babe you not special 😵‍💫

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Anonymous OP 5w

never said i was😆 i just find it funny yall referred to you can find this post by sorting top posts and then you turned around and said someone else reposted it and that’s how you found it. i still stand on what i said reposting something from that long ago is odd.

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Anonymous #5 5w

honestly i don’t care that much and forgot how i found it i can’t lie. both things are true tho sorting by top is easy af and also i didn’t even need to do that, i saw sb else post it and i still stand on what i said that the og post is fucking weird and that person needs to touch grass surely we can agree on that

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Anonymous OP 5w

we can. but i said that already and im pretty sure you and number 6 still downvoted.

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Anonymous #5 5w

where did you say that bc maybe i missed it

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Anonymous #6 5w

Again, define parasocial and explain how it applies to this (you can’t)

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Anonymous #6 5w

"yall are just proving you don't know what the word means" but says the word paradoxical

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Anonymous #4 5w

My fault auto correct

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Anonymous OP 5w

i had said it wouldn’t have been odd if you posted this around the same time the original poster did, but posting it after the show had been over for a month was odd

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Anonymous OP 5w

guys again... not everything is so black and white. the post is clearly insane and in fact parasocial... but it doesn't take away from the fact that you also are. you all have clearly shown dramatic levels of gaf about people you don't actually know

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Anonymous #2 5w

I am a psychologist baby I know what parasocial relationships look like A parasocial relationship is a one way emotional attachment with a celeb, public figure, even a fictional character. Being a “fan” or disliking someone is not parasocial. An extreme example of parasocial relationships is that girl who just put herself in the mental hospital bc she was in love w that f1 driver. The reason this specific post is indicative of a parasocial relationship is because this person is obviously very -

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Anonymous #2 5w

Emotionally heated in their post. They are genuinely upset in real life at someone they do not know for something they did on a reality TV show. Chelley did not harm them personally but this person felt so strongly about a SHOW that they hopped on Yik yak to say hateful and derogatory things towards a person they have never met. That is an emotional attachment and it’s not healthy to let your feelings get to that extreme when this show has no impact on your real life

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Anonymous #6 5w

hard read because having a Bach in psych doesn't make you a psychologist 😭 also nobody is denying that the post is parasocial, the argument is about the fact that all of you also seem to be. the evidence is in prior posts and the fact that this is 1000 comment thread. anyways i hope you all can take a chill pill and find a hobby outside of talking about reality tv characters on an anon forum ❤️

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Anonymous #4 5w

No number 2 quite literally said this post was not as parasocial as “other posts on here recently” and was denying that this is parasocial I’m getting my masters and make my money in this field so yes I am by definition a psychologist lol but whatever you say girlie

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Anonymous #4 5w

Also y’all can’t say go touch grass and get a hobby when you on the same page 😭✌️

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Anonymous #6 5w

you literally have no credentials to call yourself a psychologist. I also got my Bachelor's in psychology and am in my second year of my Master's in counseling psychology. I also work in this field, per my practicum and internship. until I've graduated and gotten my licensure, I'm not calling myself a counseling psychologist.

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Anonymous #4 5w

whatever u say brotha

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