And someday y’all gone realize not everyone is the same when it come to their emotions. Just cause one person didn’t doesn’t mean another will. Everybody is different when it comes to their emotions and just cause y’all dont agree to it doesn’t mean it’s not valid for them to feel how they felt
I don’t think you understand how hard it is to get out of that type of emotional abusive situation. Looking back at it he could see when he could’ve stuck up for himself. But when he tried to discuss an issue she asked if they could shower together trying to manipulate him. If he mentioned a single issue she would go off on him but she could run her mouth all she wanted about him.
Unfortunately I went through a similar situation like that when I would break up with him and he we try to always initiate sex to make me forget and eventually just cut them off and never communicated and went about my life dating smb new bc I knew they were never going to listen to what I had to say so I had to take control and remove myself from the equation. I’m not saying its simple but it has to be done for yourself