Anonymous #1 1d

Literally everyone was telling her how they good they were and that she was overthinking but she knew the truth. I really hope she doesn’t like pleaseee bring back someone even if it’s just for safety

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Anonymous OP 1d

I hated how much all her friends gaslighted her, but glad she stuck to her intuition regardless. I think she’ll stick with her intuition again and bring back Carl bc she already self aware that kc isnt missing her

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Anonymous #2 1d

Fingers crossed because I can’t see her be heartbroken when he bring somebody back

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Anonymous OP 1d

Like she and Carl are the same person in different fonts. She needs his level of maturity, KC is way too childish. But she's got a codependent personality type, and so does Melanie, so I fear they will both end up not choosing a casa boy

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Anonymous #1 1d

I just don’t think KC likes her at all so it kinda comes off as immaturity and being childish. I don’t think he cares what she has to say and how she feels whereas Carl likes her from either what he’s seen on the screen or in person. Her still talking about missing him is very worrisome, but I do have hope for Carl…he just needs to do his big one

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Anonymous #1 1d

What makes you say she has a codependent personality

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Anonymous #2 1d

Constant need for reassurance and refusal to let go or be let go. Her happiness relies solely on how her relationship is going

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Anonymous OP 1d

We can only hope she lets him sweep her off her feet

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Anonymous #2 1d

Not so much refusal, but fear is probably a better and more accurate word

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Anonymous #1 1d

She was seeking clarification bc it seemed he was saying one thing to her and another to the guys (which he was)…

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Anonymous #2 1d

And in a normal relationship (which they're not even in, btw), she would have dropped him. But she clings to him. It's not a dig at her, I love her, but KC is not right for her and he makes her insecure

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Anonymous #1 1d

She only clinged so long bc he gave bs “reassurance” and everyone was gaslighting her that she was overreacting. But after the second time he was exposed, shes now self aware about KC and is moving for herself now

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Anonymous #2 1d

I thought your first question was a genuine one but it looks like you're just trying to argue. It's been more than twice, it's been every episode. I won't be replying anymore

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Anonymous #1 1d

And your last sentence illustrates my gripe with therapy speak and attachment theory which supersedes love island. It annoys me how when a woman is validly anxious, they chalk it up to her having an anxious attachment when even a secure person would be just as thrown off. And then the advice given is to “communicate” with men who are so obviously manipulative. And yes a secure person would leave them after seeing the pattern & now Aniya has seen the pattern, her choice in if she brings someone

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Anonymous #2 1d

back will determine if shes codependent/anxiously attached or not

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Anonymous #1 1d

It was a genuine question bc I dont see it. She he was fed information that KC wasnt being honest twice and was upset that he made an inappropriate comment. Do you expect her not to say anything to KC or that she should leave her couple right when the first argument comes up without even seeing that its a pattern?

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Anonymous #2 1d

I'll give you a little more rope if you're being honest in that it was a genuine question. It wasn't just revealing his intentions and her still staying. She's been miserable and stressed this entire season, even through the "happy" moments she was apprehensive and had her reservations. That's not a relationship anyone should be staying in. It doesn't have to be a pattern of the same exact instance, he's shown a pattern already by writing her off and being disrespectful. And still, she says she-

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Anonymous #1 1d

-misses "her man" (they've known each other 3 weeks and they're not closed off) despite how he's treated her.

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Anonymous #1 1d

Shes was miserable & stressed when KC was two timing her and her intuition caught onto it, just as anyone would be. Shes allowed to miss her connection like all the other girls but Kenzie are expressing, but I’m glad that comment was made before she had a deeper chat with Carl and realized they have good chemistry together. Since then, shes been talking about Carl in a positive light over KC so it seems shes getting over him. If she goes back to KC after all this, I would agree shes codependent

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Anonymous #1 1d

but we dont have enough evidence to determine that before then.

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