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as an asian american, I know a lot of people who just associate the word with having an overall small eye shape. and if she grew up in Arizona around a lot of asian Americans, she probably learned that association in a not harmful way. (rest in comments)
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Anonymous 10w

um as another asian american, i think most of us would immediately correct someone if a non-asian used it

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Anonymous 10w

Arizona is also really racist. If we’re giving her the benefit of the doubt she didn’t know I really don’t think she learned it from the asian community??? if anything all the white ppl she hangs around probably normalized it?

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Anonymous 10w

She just had a feature about herself that she didn't like and wanted to change it. and if she associates that word with small eyes, she wasn't saying it to hurt anyone but that she just personally didn't like it on herself. doesn't make using it okay but she shouldn't get death threats for not knowing.

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 10w

I completely get that, I just think in some communities that its just more popularly used, especially if that's a lot of what she was surrounded by as a kid and as another minority, I know a lot of people unfortunately that would just let her pass unfortunately. that's just how some communities are, its not right but that's my experience personally

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 10w

yeah i totally get that it might be more popularly used in some communities but i’ve asked my cousin who is an arizona asian and they said it’s highly unlikely anyone in that community would let it pass

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 10w

I just know that there is a large community of asian Americans in that state specifically, that’s all I’m claiming

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 10w

i feel like u have to be pretty dumb associating a word clearly describing asian people and their eye shape and then saying u don’t like it and want to change it… like MAYBE she didn’t have a racist intention but it’s still weird… like girl

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 10w

it could be, but that is how a lot of people use that word, especially in red states like where she grew up. someone probably said it to her when she was younger and was never corrected. doesn’t make it okay but it does mean she can change

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