Love Island on Yik Yak | Nic explained his “gangin up on her” comment and it seems like (to me) he’s talking about when the girls were telling her to chill out on Jeremiah and seemed to be insensitive about it and that they’d separate from her.

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Love Island 4w

Nic explained his “gangin up on her” comment and it seems like (to me) he’s talking about when the girls were telling her to chill out on Jeremiah and seemed to be insensitive about it and that they’d separate from her.

Anonymous 4w

Honestly I think as a man it’s weird in general to be trash talking women no matter how annoying they may be. I think the moment Ace started complaining about her, he said something. Huda was definitely annoying, but she clearly was behaving irrationally and I really respected Nic for saying something. I feel like if it was just the girls talking he would’ve minded his own business.

Anonymous 4w

And if that’s the case then I’m not mad at it because I can’t deal with someone boohoo crying 24/7 about a man they’ve known for a little over a week. And even before that they had to deal with her possessiveness over him and watching her cry about him participating in a challenge.

Anonymous

OP 4w

They didn’t come on love island to be somebody’s therapist. They came to have fun and find their person. And I’m sorry Huda seems so freakin draining and I’d need a break from her at some point too.

Anonymous

OP 4w

I definitely don’t blame the girls for being fed up though I felt drained through my screen so I can’t imagine being in close proximity.

Anonymous

#1 4w

I never think it’s well received for a man to be in a women’s business so yea he probably should’ve stuck with being on Jeremiah’s case. I will say tho I didn’t have a problem when he had that chat with Huda because it was pretty calm.

Anonymous

#1 4w

Literally. Also, I’ve had a friend that would never shut up about the same problem she had with a guy and she drained me. I didn’t have to see her every single day so I can’t imagine how insane I’d be if I did and she kept talking about it.

Anonymous

OP 4w

Maybe there is a reason you felt drained by her that is not her fault. Maybe society tells people to dismiss people who express big and messy emotions & tells people to suppress their big and messy emotions and thats why people are having such an adverse reaction to it

Anonymous

#2 4w

Yea she was draining because she was talking about the same problem over and over again and not taking any advice and the situation stayed the same. It gets tiring hearing/ watching someone fall into the same pattern despite having so many people around them try to help them get out of it. And I think that’s how the islanders felt too. It’s not about dismissing emotions or suppressing them it’s about them continuing a toxic cycle and expecting the same people to be their therapist.

Anonymous

#2 4w

And it’s not about her having big and messy emotions it’s about the constant exposure to her and her problem. They were dealing with it for like 3 days none stop and that can be a lot on anyone. I can’t stop thinking about how they were all lounging around and she just walked over and started talking about Jeremiah or the fact that the girls went on a date and weren’t able to talk about it. Now we only saw an hour of their day so imagine seeing the entire day or even just being there. It’s a lot

Anonymous

OP 4w

I totally feel you on this. I had a friend who acted the same way. She would always complain to me about the way a man was treating her, and when I would console her and give her advice she would never take it. Mind you, girls like this usually don’t check in on their friends they just use them for emotional support when things aren’t going well then ignore them when a man is giving them attention again. They’re so male centered they thing their relationship issues are more important than

Anonymous

#1 4w

anything else so they cry to their friends, never ask about their lives, expect advice that they won’t take, then end up in the same predicaments cause they have no interest in actually walking away from toxic situations. They think it’s cute and quirky to be in toxic situations while they drain and use their friends. I had to distance myself from this girl cause I realized that I was only a therapist to her.