I really think the main reason why the guys aren’t talking to Olandria or pulling her for chats is because of the fact that she’s a very honest person and she calls them out on their bullshit. And the guys only want to fuck around so they feel threatened.
She’s too emotionally intelligent. Every time shit goes down she’s either quietly observing or subtly attempting to give sound advice. They know she’s not dumb and that intimidates them.