She’s on national tv ml in a huge spotlight. Have you ever connected with someone really fast and you thought it was gonna lead somewhere great? Most people have and it’s a really gut wrenching heartache because you’re mourning the potential of what could’ve been. I honestly think part of her freak out is valid and I feel like if she were a man, she wouldn’t be getting the same hate.
i also thjnk PART of it was valid. like a very small portion. but no because i was just saying in a comment if she were a man she would be getting strung UP rn for acting that way towards her couple. and i would be leading the charge too. not just from tonight’s episode but the possessive comments and all that so far. but also i can’t speak for others so idk how they would react if a man was doing that so idk
I totally get crashing out and feeling very emotional over ur couple that u were really invested in getting broken up and people voting against it but it’s more so how she acted on those feelings like I get feeling bitter towards him but why was she bitching out Jeremiah and then weirdly stalking him but yeah I agree the hate is turning into dehumanization and harassment which is never okay like what happened to the jokes
agree ab the double standards and a small portion of her anger/hurt being validated but her issue is the way she reacts. she has gotta realize she can’t control other ppl’s actions but she can control her reactions. she doesn’t grasp that part of emotional maturity is having emotional control, particularly being able to express emotions in a calm mature way