Anonymous #1 12w

the last 3 episodes before he left he was trying to get her to understand they need to still explore and she wouldn’t hear him out and just kept crashing out??

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Anonymous OP 12w

“the last 3 episodes” yeah exactly.

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Anonymous #1 12w

he literally told her after she did her big one that he felt like they should pull back and work on a better foundation and she still chose to be a psycho

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Anonymous #1 12w

the difference between them is jeremiah showed real authentic growth while huda only began to show fake growth once she was on the chopping block two episodes in a row and thought damn i better have a redemption arc so i don’t get voted off

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Anonymous #1 12w

They BOTH were weirdly possessive at first and that’s why half of the ppl voted for them in the first place. at least Jeremiah took a second and understood the issue and tried to fix it

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Anonymous OP 12w

Jeremiah love bombed her. That was textbook love bombing.

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Anonymous #2 12w

Because he was love bombing her and didn’t actually like her, especially after she revealed the fact that she was a mom

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Anonymous #1 12w

i think he did genuinely like her but his feelings changed when he found out she’s a mom. which is valid tbh not everyone is ready and willing to take that on

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Anonymous #4 12w

I don’t even think his feelings changed but he was genuinely processing it and u could tell he was overthinking some parts of their relationship as a result bc he said he’s fine with it if the relationship is promising enough

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Anonymous #2 12w

She was love bombing him the way she was controlling him throughout. He just set the bar high

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Anonymous #5 12w

She actually kissed people during the challenges. Especially on night one…. Where as Jeremiah did not.

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Anonymous #5 12w

Jeremiah locked in hard from the start, he was possessive, avoided engaging with others, and pulled away only after Huda opened up about being a mom. That’s love-bombing. Huda stayed consistent and open the whole time. Affection isn’t manipulation. For fuck sake, he’s told 10 other women that he’s loved them before. that is a pattern.

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Anonymous #3 12w

I felt bad for Jeremiah up until the moment Huda snapped at him when he mentioned that he told iris that they had a “rough morning” and he enabled her behavior by calling her “cute”. I was in awe cause her reaction was definitely concerning he only switched up when he realized America didn’t want them together. Does not make Hudas behavior okay though

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Anonymous #6 12w

Yeah he’s not innocent by any means but the way she spoke to him and screamed at him just was so off putting 😬 and she contradicted her words with her behavior so much

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Anonymous #3 12w

I agree. She definitely hits men lmaoo

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Anonymous #6 12w

Nah I think he was just trying to be nice to her because he definitely wanted it to work- but I was rly disappointed he didn’t use any other opportunity to tell her that, didn’t seem like she was letting him talk at all though

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Anonymous #3 12w

she screamed once across the villa 💀 yall need to toughen the fuck up

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Anonymous #6 12w

That is an absolutely insane assumption to make y’all need serious mental help

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Anonymous #1 12w

go watch all the interviews from everyone who has left the villa so far. they’ve all confirmed she hasn’t gotten a bad edit and she actual is crazy. they all basically said that what we saw was accurate and actually it was way worse and more often than what we saw. yall want her to have a villain edit so bad but rlly she’s just the villain😂

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Anonymous #1 12w

Once is crazy… she repeatedly raised her voice and was disrespectful towards many of the girls in the villa and literally drained everyone there. If a guy was acting this way you would not feel the same

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Anonymous #3 12w

Screaming once isn’t crazy. I would feel the exact same if it was a guy doing this after he was love-bombed

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Anonymous OP 12w

Who Jalen… the person there for like two days? Or the British trumpie?

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Anonymous #1 12w

hannah and jeremiah have both said that she’s crazy as well. and were super respectful about it. if everyone in the villa is saying the same thing then I think it’s safe to say it’s probably trie

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Anonymous OP 12w

two people who didn’t like her said that she was crazy… yeah that’s not shocking. Hannah was two-faced the entire time she was in the villa. Jeremiah was literally love bombing her.

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Anonymous #1 12w

you ppl love a buzz word. jeremiah admitted to maybe moving too fast but they BOTH moved too fast. he did say he never love bombed her and I didn’t see that either

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Anonymous OP 12w

That wasn’t just me using buzzwords, Jeremiah literally love bombed Huda. He came on super strong at first, giving her a lot of attention and energy, then suddenly pulled back. That shift is exactly why she started asking for more effort.. it wasn’t about being needy, it was about the abrupt change in how he treated her.

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Anonymous #1 12w

he spoke about this in the podcast. you should watch it. he explains what all we didn’t see off camera that including having expectation conversations and he explained that no matter how he approached it she wasn’t having it. he said she wanted to be almost like official bf and gf and he was trying to explain that’s not how this works but she’s just psycho and doesn’t get it

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Anonymous OP 12w

I genuinely don’t care what he said in the goddamn podcast he can say whatever the fuck he wants to say. Whatever he said doesn’t mean it’s the 100% truth.

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Anonymous OP 12w

in the beginning he was making her full breakfasts and being super attentive, really showing out. But literally the day after she gently asked for a little more intentional effort (like doing something cute together), he flipped. The next morning he gave her one undercooked pancake. That kind of sudden drop-off is exactly why it felt like love bombing..big energy up front, then nothing once real effort was asked for

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Anonymous OP 12w

Not to mention, he kept bringing up how accepting her being a mom was ‘too much effort’ even after she gave him a clear out and said he didn’t have to stay if it was too much. When she calmly asked for clarification—like whether they were still exploring things with the bombshells, he told her to shut up instead of just communicating.

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Anonymous OP 12w

And on top of that, he tried to weaponize his therapy, using it to justify shutting down or avoiding accountability instead of actually growing. All of that, combined with the sudden drop in effort, shows it wasn’t just a mismatch, it was emotional manipulation.

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Anonymous OP 12w

People love to paint her as jealous, but let’s be real, his actions set the tone. From day one, he gave her a strong sense of security. He didn’t kiss anyone in early challenges, didn’t flirt the way others did, and made it seem like he was locked in. So yeah, of course she told the bombshells to back off, he let her believe she had something real. You can listen to whatever he says on his podcast, but that doesn’t automatically make it true.

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Anonymous OP 12w

The only real truth is in the footage we haven’t seen. Until producers release the full story, acting like she just made it all up is delusional. That’s not jealousy, that’s reacting to mixed signals and manipulation.

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Anonymous #1 12w

i love how you keep on saying “calmly asked” for this “calmly” said that. there is nothing calm about that crazy bitch. multiple ppl have said it from ppl that were in the villa, ppl who know her from before LI, etc. you guys can defend her all you want but all it paints you out to be is someone with a victim mentality as well. defending huda has nothing to do with jeremiah’s character it’s just showing who you ppl are if you’re going to defend her psycho actions. grow up. you’re a “mommy”

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Anonymous #1 12w

and you’re crashing out that bad over someone you’ve known for 2 weeks? idc how much imaginary manipulation you want to say happened. that still doesn’t excuse the fact that you need to act like an adult especially if you claim to be so emotionally mature. she’s a liar and manipulator. she has said nothing nice about anyone she ever feels threatened by and she’s fake when she needs ppl on her side. she’s doing it to america right now with her fake redemption arc. she doesn’t want to go home so

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Anonymous #1 12w

she’s making all of you gullible delusional ppl think she’s some changed person in 48 hrs. no. she’s still crazy she’s just not crashing out anymore. i’m not throwing a maturity party for her just because she’s lasted a whole 2 days without a crash out. no other women in the villa have acted like this. if jeremiah was acting the way she was and acting a fool you all would’ve went crazyyyy with the abusive men narrative and wanted him out but since it’s a woman you support her

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Anonymous OP 12w

Literally I don’t think ppl know what love bombing is.

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Anonymous OP 12w

crazy because she only called people bitches and liars? Y’all are so fucking weak.

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Anonymous #3 12w

It’s when someone overwhelms you with attention, affection, and grand gestures very early on to create a false sense of emotional safety and fast-track intimacy. The goal is often to get you emotionally invested before they’ve truly earned that trust. Then, once you’re attached or start asking for emotional consistency, the affection gets pulled back or replaced with coldness, avoidance, or even blame.

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Anonymous #3 12w

That push and pull dynamic creates confusion, self doubt, and a power imbalance. So yes, I do know what love bombing is and calling it out doesn’t mean I’m misusing the term. It means I’m recognizing the pattern for what it is.

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Anonymous #1 12w

She called Amaya a bitch before even speaking a word to her 😭u defending her behavior too much

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Anonymous #3 12w

And she apologized to Amaya

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Anonymous #3 12w

honestly, if that’s the worst that you have to say it just proves to show how fucking weak your stance is

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Anonymous OP 12w

she did calmly ask for him to do more. Nothing about her actions, and your perspective will change the fact that she did in fact calmly ask him to do more for her. 💀

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Anonymous OP 12w

I think it’s so cute how you think I’m crashing out. Me calmly explaining something to you isn’t a crash out. I understand your massive confusion on when someone’s overreacting, but come the fuck on.

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Anonymous #1 12w

i never said you were crashing out. I said it was insane that she was crashing out that hard over a man she’d known for 2 weeks after claiming to be emotionally mature

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Anonymous OP 12w

sorry, I misread your comment. I thought you were telling me I’m crashing out and I’m like girl where???

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Anonymous #1 12w

haha I can see rereading it how it sounded that way. I hate the word count limit

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