I’m a athlete at my college and we agreed this summer that we wouldn’t sleep together the night before a game (this is where the arguments started) she basically crashed out when I left her room to go to bed. Then she got mad at me this past weekend for going to the bar with my parents who FLEW to surprise me to watch the game, those are just a few of the way too many I can count from every day
Ok that’s wild. Depending on how long this relationship has been going and how long you want it to continue, couples counseling would be a good idea to start with her if both of you want it because clearly there’s a disconnect. If this isn’t something that you think is worth salvaging, focus on yourself and do what’s best for you!