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Lads my girl is making me start to go downhill again and idk what to do, I don’t feel the same anymore towards her and I think starting to this way is a part of that, what do I do boys?
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Anonymous 4d

Have an open and honest conversation. That’s the only way the two of you will be able to resolve whatever it is that you two are going through.

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Anonymous 2d

Breakup with her

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 4d

Tried to do this the other day, got yelled at and she tired to argue with me 🥲

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 4d

What were the arguments she brought up?

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 4d

I’m a athlete at my college and we agreed this summer that we wouldn’t sleep together the night before a game (this is where the arguments started) she basically crashed out when I left her room to go to bed. Then she got mad at me this past weekend for going to the bar with my parents who FLEW to surprise me to watch the game, those are just a few of the way too many I can count from every day

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 4d

^ two weeks ago the night before a game I tried to go to my room before she crashed out

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 4d

Ok that’s wild. Depending on how long this relationship has been going and how long you want it to continue, couples counseling would be a good idea to start with her if both of you want it because clearly there’s a disconnect. If this isn’t something that you think is worth salvaging, focus on yourself and do what’s best for you!

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 4d

Thank you brotha, really just had to ask the lads to make sure I wasn’t the one that was crazy

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 4d

Unless there’s further context, it seems like she may be making a few unreasonable demands and that require clear and healthy conversation and that’s not happening.

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 1d

please leave her, she’s toxic.

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