Men’s Mental Health on Yik Yak | I know it’s my own fault that I can’t get into a relationship. Every time I meet someone nice and there’s the potential for a relationship, I push them away or pick apart every interaction to find a red flag to cut them off. I don’t know why I do this.

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Men’s Mental Health 5w

I know it’s my own fault that I can’t get into a relationship. Every time I meet someone nice and there’s the potential for a relationship, I push them away or pick apart every interaction to find a red flag to cut them off. I don’t know why I do this.

Anonymous 5w

Have you been hurt badly in past relationships? Sometimes it’s a self protection thing

Anonymous

#1 5w

I have been, I really only had three serious relationships and they all ended in me getting hurt some way or another

Anonymous

OP 5w

That’s wild, I’m in a very similar boat. Both with the history and the current issue. So not trying to project here but that’s my guess anyway, that it’s a protective thing

Anonymous

#1 5w

Can I ask how the past relationships ended? Was there a theme or were they all pretty different?

Anonymous

#1 5w

They were all very different. While I won’t go into details, two were because the other person intentionally hurt me and the third wasn’t intentional