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Being a virgin at 20 and not ever having a real relationship is so stressful because if I ever find that person idk if wtv I do will be enough and at this point I’m too scared to even talk to girls romantically although I take care of my health/body
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Anonymous 3w

If you find the right person, nothing you do will turn them away. About being a virgin, don’t worry about that and don’t force yourself to try and lose it as I deeply regret losing it with a friend… now that I’m in an actual relationship 3 months later after I did it (and 6 months of talking/dating now)… lose your virginity while your dating someone please, do it for me!

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 3w

Thank you for the advice I honestly feel pressured to lose it espically with all peers having lost theirs

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 3w

You’re welcome, I felt the same way so I hooked up with someone I shouldn’t have that didn’t care at all about me (and had sex with their ex 7 times over winter break after me might I add). Now that my girlfriend is a virgin, I feel like I wasted it on something I shouldn’t have

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 3w

Wow that’s awful but glad you found someone that loves you now ❤️

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