Anonymous #2 16w

even if it seems as if nothing is improving, it is though. you will thank yourself later, for keeping true grit and consistency in trying! 😃

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Anonymous #2 16w

hope this was found useful, but you got this champ.

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Anonymous #2 16w

I don’t understand that your saying.

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Anonymous #1 16w

Well then it may take the strategy of breaking the law, one which is avoiding paying taxes.

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Anonymous OP 16w

What are you talking about why would you need to break the law

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Anonymous #1 16w

What is it that you want exactly

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Anonymous #1 16w

The ability to make a good living, have a house, have land, have a family, be free.

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Anonymous OP 16w

Why would you need to break the law to do gave those things

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Anonymous #1 16w

Because I feel like my ability to get them is slowly being taken away, by making it harder and harder to get them. Some of it because of costs and money. And some of it on purpose.

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How the hell am I supposed to when it feels like I am constantly being fucked in the ass?

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Anonymous OP 16w

Ground yourself in action set small easy to accomplish goals and focus your attention and effort into accomplishing them they’ll then snowball into larger and larger accomplishments

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Anonymous OP 16w

Also you aren’t being fucked in the ass does the current environment suck absolutely but it’s not personal and taking that way is fucking stupid

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Anonymous #1 16w

You make some since but you say taking it personal is fucking stupid but try living with constant anxiety, clinically diagnosed and take meds for it.

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Anonymous OP 16w

Are the meds working

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Anonymous #1 16w

Nope. Tried more kinda than I can remember. Also take some for depression too.

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Anonymous OP 16w

How’s your physical health

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Anonymous #1 16w

In terms of like chronic illness, daily exercise, diet, sleep, stress etc

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Anonymous #1 16w

Physically I am fine. Last time I went to doctor they said I was fine. In terms of chronic illness I have allergies, headaches, and migraines since middle school. I tried exercising for a while but it didn’t make me feel any better, was still very anxious and depressed. To put in perspective I many times do not like being out in public. Sleep wise it’s some nights good some nights bad. It’s random. Stress is always been high since probably high school.

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Anonymous OP 16w

It sounds like your life as a system is set up to produce non desirable outputs maybe try to fix a couple areas of your life and I think that you will notice a drastic improvement in quality of life as well as the ability to attain your ideal life

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Anonymous #1 16w

That’s what I have been trying to do. Most of the things I wanna do I cannot afford. And I am going back to school after dropping out from stress, anxiety, depression, and going to a mental health hospital. I’m going back to school in order to be able to find a good job because the last two jobs I applied to I didn’t get. Both basically said I was not qualified, and they both were entry level jobs said said they would train on the job. I barely can afford school with my parents help and loans.

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Anonymous OP 16w

and with it being online.

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Anonymous OP 16w

Oh ok well sounds like you have sometime this isn’t something that’s going to happen overnight allow yourself to use your time in school to develop and construct yourself and your life

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Anonymous #1 16w

I will try but since it’s online not exactly sure how I will do that. And i’m just worried about what life’s gonna look like when I am finished with school and trying to find a job, and then trying to get everything else.

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Anonymous OP 16w

That’s a million miles away right now focus on getting your feet under you and passing your classes

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Anonymous #1 16w

I’m already half way done. I transferred in so max I only have two years. How do I get my feet under me? Especially when I don’t have school work to do?

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Anonymous OP 16w

And if anything i’m just angry and pissed off all the time.

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Anonymous OP 16w

By fucking acting you know what you need to do there’s just shit getting in the way sometimes when there’s too much shit to navigate and there’s no way around you need to close you eyes great your teeth and go through

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Anonymous #1 16w

Grit

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Anonymous #1 16w

Besides school i’ve got nothing that I can do to progress in life. Schools not what I am talking about, i’ve got it covered. Part of the reason I even went back in the first place was because I was so lost in life.

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Anonymous OP 16w

Besides school, I have no idea what your talking about.

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Anonymous OP 16w

Hobbies, socializing in real life, physical health improvements, increase soft and hard skills that help in being financially successful these things will make your life better in the short term as well as help you achieve your long term goals you can’t achieve them because of existing problems there are enough existing problems that there is easy solution and the only one is doing them while gritting your teeth so to speak

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Anonymous #1 16w

There is no easy solution

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Anonymous #1 16w

It’s a catch 22 you need to have stability to fix your issues but you issues make stability impossible so now your stuck the only way to get unstuck is to brute fucking force it

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Anonymous #1 16w

I sorta get it for the social thing. Hobbies wise not so much. As for increasing skills the only way I see about going about that is school.

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Anonymous OP 16w

Idk bro just fucking figure it out no one owes you a happy life you can live and die in misery or you can say fuck it and do the shit that’ll allow you to thrive

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Anonymous #1 16w

Bro you’re acting like I just know all the answers and am just not doing them. If I had the answers I would already be doing them. Your mindset is one I have already tried because it’s what at one time my Dad taught to me before he himself had to have therapy and was at time’s abusive and it’s part of what put me in the place that I am in now.

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Anonymous OP 16w

I know that’s why you have to go out and find the answers in real life

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Anonymous #1 16w

You’re an asshole, get a life

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