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Parents: take your kids to therapy if they are irresponsible. Discipline and punishment doesn’t work. Maybe if my parents did that long term I would be in a better place.
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Anonymous 15w

Yes but don’t take them to the wrong therapist. That ABA shit is unethical. Therapy is also not a magic cure-all

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Anonymous 15w

i really wish my parents would have just communicated better overall instead of using “punishments”. i teach kids as an adult now and they want explanations and reasoning because it helps them understand why certain things are effective and how simple things can help create healthy habits which i had to learn as an adult.. in therapy 😂

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Anonymous 15w

And my mom wonders why I called her a BITCH and don’t regret it

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 15w

me as well! ive learned how to discipline myself but it’s still even hard as an adult to keep that going.

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 15w

Exactly this. Looking back I was doing shit because I didn’t know any better yet they acted like I did. Like no mom I’m only 9 wtf you mean I should know better

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 15w

Somewhat related fun fact: Some “ABA” therapists actually practice good therapy techniques but label themselves as an ABA practitioner because insurances cover that more often 🙂something I learned relatively recently

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 15w

How

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