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For some reason I just realized the relationship I had with professor at 18 was grooming. I was just a girl. I was just trying to go to school. He’s the only person I want to console me about this right now he’s still my go to advice person but I can’t
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Anonymous 3w

The things I see here sometimes make me question humanity. I’m so sorry you’re in this bind, OP. Go to student counselling, let them know (don’t have to out him, they probably already heard abt him), ask for more advice. Their priority is to protect you, and you need protection right now.

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Anonymous 3w

what makes you think it’s grooming and not just genuine help

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 3w

Maybe the fact I was sleeping with him? The fact when I started in his class he’d compliment me, make comments on my body . I remember the first time he hugged me after I stayed after and told me I couldn’t tell anybody. I had a character restriction above

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 3w

oh yeah why tf were you sleeping with a professor

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 3w

but like this is quite obvious why did you fall for any of this lmao

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 3w

I felt like he was the smartest person I’d ever met, I guess I was attracted to his intellect. I felt special I guess. I had a rough childhood so i guess it felt easy to latch onto him and his safety

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 3w

Stop dogging on OP for the actions of a sleezy manipulative old dude. Predators will develop an entire personality curated for their prey like honey draws flies. It is not the victims’ fault they got hurt. I hope OP is moving on from this and learning how to heal

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 3w

attracted to a PROFESSOR’s intellect that’s his JOB

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 3w

And we are all literally told about creepy professors like that since like MIDDLE SCHOOL so I don’t know how she didn’t see it coming from a mile away

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 3w

Don’t be a fly idfk be anything else besides a dumb fly and this wont happen to you

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 3w

Idk why ur in a mental health forum bruh. Clearly being an unstable teenager things happen, I was told about creepy professors and as a KID I just wanted the attention

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 3w

Thank you

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 3w

You need to hone your rage bait. It’s a little too obvious the personality you’re attempting to portray doesn’t have shit for brains and thinks everyone’s experiences and common sense is identical. And three separate comments? What is this, twitter?

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 3w

If you think I’m baiting good for you

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 3w

You are a dumbass if you fell for that and I am going to block you because I really don’t want to interact with people who are that gullible and stupid.

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 2w

Unfortunately it’s been a few years since this I’m 22 now. We stayed close for many years after I stopped being his student, he moved on from that school anyway. I just only realized now how inappropriate that was. At the time I just felt special

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