i have lost pretty much all hope tbh. if i do talk to someone, i don’t get my hopes up bc i know they’ll ghost me in a week. i’m always good enough for short term, but never long. i’ve never once been someones first choice and i have the feeling that i never will be. i have always been the stepping stone in the ground. “someone would be so lucky to have you as their person.” well i think that ship has sailed.

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Yes. I still have hope but I’m so scared of it

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all the time. i’ve basically given up on trying to find “my person”

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All the time. I’ve never even been flirted with, let alone been on a date, kissed, or even just held hands. I will die a virgin loser.

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Yes

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Yeah I’ve lost hope

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I already did but keep fucking everything up between us so idek if we’ll work around that

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yes

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i felt this way too. for years. i thought i would end up alone. but then i found my gf and i wasn’t even looking for love always have hope. event if it’s a small amount

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Hope y’all aren’t under 40 with this mess

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