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Mental Health 1w
This girl I know is high-key a crazy bitch who makes horrible decisions then makes it her friend’s problem. She also can’t stop hitting on people in our friend group. She’s fucked up. It’s me. I’m the girl and I’ve hurt all my friends and want to die
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Anonymous 6d

i’m ngl it kinda sounds like they’re gaslighting you, and that’s not what good friends do. true friends would have communicated with you about this to help improve your friendship, not make it an excuse to leave you. i’m really sorry you’re going through this. you deserve people who care about you. don’t ever let people think you’re a bad person, because you’re not.

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Anonymous 6d

Also Don’t die dying is illegal if you die we’ll have to put you on trial by jury and serene you to death

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Anonymous 6d

Recognizing this is the first step to improving. Your friends are sticking around for a reason, they can help you.

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 6d

*sentence

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 6d

No, they left me last week and just told me why last night

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 6d

Oh damn I’m sorry. Still not the end though, it’s only the start of the semester and if you know what went wrong you can do your best to make sure it doesn’t happen again.

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 6d

Important note: that’s not what gaslighting is. But still idk your situation but it’s still shitty of your friends if they didn’t put in the effort to communicate this before cutting you out.

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 6d

you’re right, gaslighting probably isn’t the correct term to use here. this is more like giving judgement without providing clarity. my original understanding of the post was that they could have potentially convinced them that they were never a good friend to them and to mistrust themself, hence why they were accepting harsh labels assigned to them. we can’t confirm or deny what happened but what i can say is that OP is not a bad person and didn’t deserve that.

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