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Mental Health 16w
i mean this in the most genuine way possible, how do i recognize when i'm being manipulative? i try so hard not to be and recently i've been told i am and i don't want to be like that but i don't know how to fix it or what i'm even doing wrong please help
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Anonymous 16w

Can you give an example, like whatever was going on when it was brought to your attention?

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 16w

me and my bf have been arguing a bunch and he called me bc i was asking what he was doing in a parking garage for 3 hours and i thought i was being calm but he said i was losing my shit and i said i wasn't i was just asking then when he got off the phone he said his friend said i was being manipulative

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 16w

so like was it me saying i wasn't losing my shit? like i was annoyed but i was staying calm on the phone but ig it didn't come off that way and i thought i was just like saying how i feel but idk i don't wanna be manipulative

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