
1. R*pists tend to have a warped worldview that is insensitive towards r*pe in general as well as their action of having r*ped their victim. It can be anything from psychological instability or being unaware of their actions (extremely unlikely), to “Oh it’s not a big deal” or violent, sadistic worldviews.
2. I’ve noticed that it sometimes, or even typically in my case as I’ve surprisingly noticed the latter more, that r*pe seemingly doesn’t affect the victim until a person who is anti-rape and willing to help the victim points out their concern to the victim. I’m not sure how I feel about this (as someone who’s been a victim when I was younger, about 17-18 in my case) without going in too much detail in my experience it felt like something was being physically forced onto me and 1/
2 (Cont.) though I tried to ignore it or rationalize it (common coping tactic of victims??) the feeling of something being physically forced onto me stayed. I think sometimes and dare I say oftentimes, r*pe victims may feel minimally hurt by the offense against them until it is pointed out to them and they have to cope, or until the r*pists tragically pushes it too far.