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TW: su!c!dality, r*pe I’ve noticed some things about a lot of r*pists and am speaking out about it even though I’m scared my social group will out me, ostracize me, etc. I’ve noticed that:
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Anonymous 4w

1. R*pists tend to have a warped worldview that is insensitive towards r*pe in general as well as their action of having r*ped their victim. It can be anything from psychological instability or being unaware of their actions (extremely unlikely), to “Oh it’s not a big deal” or violent, sadistic worldviews.

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Anonymous 4w

4. In no way, shape, or form is r*pe EVER justified regardless of circumstance, sexual identity, or that’s pretty much it. and there should be more stringent measures in place for the justice of r*pe victims in society.

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Anonymous 4w

2. I’ve noticed that it sometimes, or even typically in my case as I’ve surprisingly noticed the latter more, that r*pe seemingly doesn’t affect the victim until a person who is anti-rape and willing to help the victim points out their concern to the victim. I’m not sure how I feel about this (as someone who’s been a victim when I was younger, about 17-18 in my case) without going in too much detail in my experience it felt like something was being physically forced onto me and 1/

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Anonymous 4w

6. It’s both bad and r*pe to just watch your victim give you their consent and for you to just take advantage of that, and also to just take your victim’s consent.

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Anonymous 4w

3. I’ve noticed some people conflate r*pe and sexual offenses with codependency and I think there’s a key difference b/w the two: it’s as simple as that codependency gives itself the space to be recognized while r*pe almost always leaves lingering doubts in the victim(s)’ mind

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Anonymous 4w

2 (Cont.) though I tried to ignore it or rationalize it (common coping tactic of victims??) the feeling of something being physically forced onto me stayed. I think sometimes and dare I say oftentimes, r*pe victims may feel minimally hurt by the offense against them until it is pointed out to them and they have to cope, or until the r*pists tragically pushes it too far.

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 4w

and I’m taking a break from this.

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