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Mental Health 13w
I want to fall in love. I do. But I dont want to push my problems onto them. I dont want them to be burdened by who I am. To be scared I might snap one day and off myself. I dont want that for them
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Anonymous 13w

i have adhd, smoke hella weed, can’t live at home, freak out everyday. I’ve managed to find a mutual ground of learning how to communicate through the five year relationship not by avoiding it. Peace & love 🤙🏼

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Anonymous 13w

If that person loves you back, your problem becomes both of your problem. Vice versa too. Being in a relationship is a team effort. If they love you for who you are, it wouldn’t be a burden. Go find your person

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Anonymous 13w

me too

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Anonymous 13w

Focus on strong friendships you can rely on before even considering dating, and remember… all for some and some for all.

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 13w

I know but I dont want them to become my therapist. They dont deserve to deal with this. How is someone supposed to love me if I can't love myself? If im so unstable. It would probably get so draining. Its not fair for them

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 13w

i feel like my feelings or my problems arent validated.. which is unfair

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 13w

You have to love yourself before you can love someone else. That being said, having support network will help you get to where you want to be. Sometimes, when you voice your concerns or feelings, people have suggestions and advice and stuff that you might not have thought about. It all brings in a fresh new perspective which is always nice to have in these times

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 13w

i love hard, and so much to someone else but it’s not the same or equal.. i get less than that or not enough

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 13w

You haven’t found the right person yet, but you know when you will. You’ll feel safe, trusted, and loved by them. All unconditionally

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 13w

i sure hope so

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 13w

Maybe I'll try to actually find love now. I'll be open about my problems and find that person who is okay with them. I'll try

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