this is so real. this is called “self sabotage.” people usually self sabotage due to fear

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Me in my notes app at 3am

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Letting people in is actually terrifying especially if you didn’t grow up having it modeled in healthy relationships and practicing it so it is very natural to be scared to try it and to let yourself get your hopes up for something that might not turn out the way you’ve been wanting so long 🙃

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this is too fucking real.

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I have had healthy relationships but getting those destroyed scarred me as well so yea I can understand that but on the other side’s perspective iykwim

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