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I just want a family and someone to love but I feel too damaged and like no one could ever love me
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Anonymous 13w

me too. i fear that bc im so damaged that i would be harmful to my family and my partner… i really want to be a better person but it’s just rlly hard to navigate that journey by yourself :/

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 13w

Same.. it’s hard to navigate with others too. I don’t want to be alone.. but I’m also scared of people at the same time. It hurts

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 13w

feel that, dealing with life’s battles and family issues or having to deal with other toxic/traumatic drama makes me feel like i will just scare away anyone who wants to love me but that’s not the case. someone will love you regardless and even be loving and helpful. one day. but yeah i can relate to that

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 13w

we are all still so worthy of love. no one has a perfect life, and some have more traumas than others, but just know you are not unworthy because of what you go through or have been through. you are strong because of it and the right person will love you not out of a burden but of a place of genuine care and love. one day we will get that.

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