My mom has also done bs like this. It really has nothing to do with you or me besides the fact that we are probably the only people that our moms will take out all their stress on. It says more about her than u. But that stabbing fear every time still hurts

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oh god i’m sorry. my moms also like this and it’s never a good feeling :( it’s not your fault

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I’m sorry but your mom sounds like crap and needs serious therapy bc who says this to their child? I would distance yourself from her. Unless you’re actually contributing to the issue then maybe seek therapy together

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I’m so sorry

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My mom would tell lies about my step father, and I would get the blame. The last thing she said was that my step father had a crush on me. My little brother heard it and I got disowned, because I got blamed. It now marks 3 years since I ever spoke to my parents. There is a lot more but I don’t want to go into details.

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My mom has NPD, she pulls this shit all the time. My dad ignores it. I’m adopted (important for this story) she use to always tell me I’m not allowed to meet my bio mom bc what if I stop living her and want to live with my bio mom forever…. I was like 6 the first time she said that to me, we were doing a family tree project and I wanted to figure out how to add my bio parents

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