Yik Yak icon
Join communities on Yik Yak Download
tw: emotional abuse/grooming my jr and sr yr of hs i was talking to an older guy online. long story short, he was super shitty but i was super vulnerable and he was a great manipulator. blocked him jan ‘24. this past month has been TERRIBLE for me. now +
upvote 6 downvote

default user profile icon
Anonymous 5w

today i get a suggested friend on snap. im 99% sure its him (bitmojis are basically identical. this acc is only initials and first initial is same). my mental health is SO bad that im tempted to add him again. i know i shouldn’t and i know how dangerous it. idk why im doing this.

upvote 3 downvote
default user profile icon
Anonymous 5w

I was groomed jr year of high school and I’m 22 now. I still get the urge sometimes to ask him how he’s doing or check up on him because of the trauma bond. I always remind myself of his evil intentions and how I need to respect myself enough to stay away from a man that was doing things he should not have been doing to me

upvote 3 downvote
default user profile icon
Anonymous 5w

Definitely do not add him. He sounds like bad news. Your mental health will be better if he’s far away from you.

upvote 1 downvote
default user profile icon
Anonymous replying to -> #1 5w

If you want a friend to talk to, anyone but him. Heck, you can talk to me. But remember online safety and don’t give me too much info

upvote 1 downvote