Also I have never self harmed and it’s been years since I ever had those thoughts which my ex knew. She didn’t even text me first to see if I’m okay, just had the friend call my parents saying that and after my parents came to check on me, 5 mins later my ex texted me saying she was calling the cops for a wellness check. I called my ex to tell her to not fucking do that and ask her wtf she was doing. Her friend picked up and chewed me out saying I can’t say things like that which is dumb af
Cause we said goodbye going into no contact and somehow that wasn’t an issue and somehow the friend didn’t see the issue with my ex who broke no contact weekly to ask me to talk and the friend blamed me for everything my ex was going through. Had tons of therapy after that and couldn’t go to work for 2 weeks cause I was a mental and emotional wreck from that