
do you think if she knew it was you she would have said that? i don’t mean to pry and i’m sorry if im making you uncomfy in any way, i’m just the product of a lot of ppl going no contact with each other and it’s traumatized me. sometimes i wonder if there was more communication and counseling present that things would be different… but i know your situation must be different from mine and you certainly had a good reason. some ppl never change, but others will if they value what’s at stake.