You’re definitely not alone in this. It doesn’t necessarily mean there’s something wrong either, it could be something like standalone insomnia. That being said there is no such thing as a “correct” sleep schedule as long as you’re getting enough sleep to stay healthy. If you really feel this is due to depression, then please talk to someone professional.
My roommate had this problem; they were prescribed antidepressants that double as sleep meds by a psychiatrist. I know you said you can’t afford therapy, but with psychiatrists you meet a lot less frequently and often times they will have sliding scale payment or payment plan options. Best of luck 🩷
i’ve been struggling to sleep since a very traumatic event i went through in the beginning of the summer after graduating. same deal, staying up until 3-4 am bc my mind is racing and i don’t feel good. my sleep hasn’t felt restful in a while either. i’m fortunate enough to be able to get a therapist but ya, all of this to say is that i definitely resonate w this post a lot. hoping it gets better for the both of us, if i learn any tips ill be sharing them fs.
If it’s possible for you to adjust your schedule during the day so your work is later and you can get enough sleep regardless of how late you go to bed that could be helpful until you get your sleep schedule adjusted For actually going to sleep maybe try doing something super boring and difficult like reading a dense book or research paper (but something printed or on a device you can’t play games on so you don’t get distracted) then you may either tire yourself asleep or at least be productive
I used to smoke myself to sleep, it was the only thing that worked. It definitely became a problem bc I was going through it too fast. But I got my habits under control and basically just take an edible every night to sleep and curb my chronic nausea. I treat it like melatonin (because I can’t take melatonin)
That’s me. A gummy a night basically. Chronic illnesses and expensive meds that insurance won’t cover enough of so a 5-10mg gummy and I’m out (it doesn’t take much to get me to sleep idk if that amount is just tricking me into thinking I’m abt to sleep or if it’s bc I take it and meditate and try to sleep it works lol