Yik Yak icon
Join communities on Yik Yak Download
Im so terrified my roommates are going to find out im mentally ill and insane. It’s going to be my first year living in a dorm which im really excited about but im so scared if i have one slip up and have an insane episode they’ll all turn against me
upvote 11 downvote

default user profile icon
Anonymous 8w

its best to just be honest with them from the get go you don’t have to tell them your diagnosis or anything but just tell them that sometimes you may struggle with your mental health

upvote 8 downvote
default user profile icon
Anonymous 8w

Sharing a safety plan with them helps imo. Warning signs, what might help you when ur having an episode, what you need to do to calm down. Just so they know and can possibly help

upvote 3 downvote
default user profile icon
Anonymous 8w

Maybe it would help to be transparent with them. You don’t have to give them all the details but maybe letting them know certain things you struggle with, as well as signs you’re starting to get bad (so they’re aware and less likely to take anything too personal). From my experience, it’s always bit me in the ass never telling anyone what’s going on. I just look like a self-destructive person who doesn’t care about anyone but herself (when really I’m isolating in my room cause I’m scared).

upvote 1 downvote
default user profile icon
Anonymous 8w

Can’t hide it forever 😿

upvote 1 downvote
default user profile icon
Anonymous replying to -> #3 8w

This worked for my roommate and I so we were able to support each other better :)

upvote 1 downvote