I hate that my entire happiness and personality completely revolves around my bf, I’m literally in agony and every extreme negative emotion when he doesn’t answer my texts and calls on time:m; i can’t do a single thing without it always being him in mind
Damn you need to talk to a therapist and get out of that relationship. At the end of the day it’s just you in this world so you need to be able to function without them
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Anonymous9w
It’s great to have someone like that, but it’s also necessary to be able to self regulate. I second number 1 and say find a professional
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Anonymous#18w
Um no I’m not getting out of it. I’m trying to get help and it’s not his fault I’m like this, he’s also very mentally unstable
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AnonymousOP8w
I still say get a professional. Codependence is not going to work long term. It may work for a few years but it won’t work forever