
I think it’s more so a management plan for a chronic condition can be life changing. My old HS tutor has a kid who has severe autism, he will likely never speak, and had major struggles with everything, even just walking. People forget “has hobbies” isn’t the only kinda autism out there.
This is like blaming poor people for suffering under capitalism. They wouldn't be poor if our society didn't set up its systems to maintain poverty. Disabled people wouldn't be functionally disabled if society didn't refuse accommodation. And this is the same problem behind all marginalization! Not even just ableism...
Individual habits don’t exist in a vacuum. When generational wealth, quality education, healthcare, and stable housing are distributed unequally from birth, the “choices” available to poor people are already severely limited. Calling that a personal failure ignores that the starting conditions were never equal.
The habits you’re describing are often symptoms, not causes. Chronic stress from financial insecurity impairs decision-making. Working three jobs leaves no time for “better habits.” Accountability means nothing if the system keeps moving the goalposts regardless of behavior.