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Neurodivergent 21h
“What makes someone unattractive to you?” Bitch, I don’t know??? I don’t think anyone is attractive unless I know them super personally and decide that they are a good person. My boyfriend just happens to be attractive physically as well.
#neurodivergent#adhd#uhh
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Anonymous 16h

me being aroace

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Anonymous 16h

what made you approach your boyfriend? isn’t physical attraction what initiates interaction? you can’t know someone’s personality without approaching them so what makes you approach them?

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 12h

They could’ve started out as friends and met in school or through a mutual friend hangout, in that case it would’ve been proximity and/or shared interests that would initiate interaction

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 10h

We lived across the street from each other, both had dogs and both liked skateboarding. I don’t really pay attention to people’s looks. It is difficult for me to find people attractive unless I know they are a good person. Idk how to explain it, unfortunately. Words are not my strength

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 10h

You are correct! We were neighbors who both had dogs and liked skateboarding

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 10h

I hate pushing labels but maybe you could look up demiromanticism on Wikipedia? It might match your experience

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 8h

I don’t really care about labels. I just know I am happy with my boyfriend and that is good enough for me

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 8h

That’s very real, honestly

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 7h

Also, I apologize if any of my responses sounded rude— I am very bad at conveying tone over text, but I can promise you that I have been responding with zero sass, trust! I am just bad at speaking in general

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 7h

Don’t worry it came across perfectly, you actually seemed overly respectful if anything

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