
In my career it’s not a very big deal neurodivergents, or those showing traits, make up like 80% of my coworkers. I’m worried bc my fiance and I want to have kids eventually but she does not wanna give birth so I don’t want there to be another hurdle between us and adoption. But also I do know the stigma associated with a diagnosis I go from just a guy who’s a little different to something’s wrong with him and he needs pity.