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I am a sociopath attending college (I know that term is dated but I couldn't really care less) how do I feel less like a piece of filth masquerading as human among my peers? I believe I'm somewhat high functioning, I can form bonds but feel very little.
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Anonymous 18h

**Feel very little besides the spontaneous outbursts of things like rage, lust, or excitement, but never happiness, sadness, etc. (character limit).

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Anonymous 14h

I know this is the thing everybody hears when they ask this and it can get real annoying, but as someone with a similar but different situation it does really help to find people who readily accept a friend who might not be as responsive as is “acceptable”. Most dinners I space out and don’t contribute much to conversation but my friends still talk to me and like me which helps

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Anonymous 16h

Hold on to the feelings you do feel and apply them to the moods that others seem to be feeling around you. It should (hopefully) create bonds in your mind as to how you “should” be reacting. It’s like neuroplasticity or smth of the sort.

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Anonymous 16h

pay attention to social cues. even if it’s not real for you, following social cues will make conversing easier

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Anonymous 17h

Fake it til you make it. Lots of times the label feels like it applies and it’s just masking like difficulties with empathy and anhedonic depression. Just be what people see as ‘decent’

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Anonymous 7h

Sometimes you gotta at least pretend to care. I’ve dealt with situations where I was dealing with grief and depression. My friends had no sympathy and ghosted me. It’s an example of what not to do

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 17h

If for no other reason than it is usually the most effective way to get what you want/ need

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 14h

Despite what many people seem to think, there’s plenty of people out there who like having a friend that isn’t emotionally reacting to everything someone says. Obviously the expression of emotions isn’t directly correlated to energy levels, but when it comes to me people do seem to like talking to someone who’s just. Calm and low energy most of the time but it’ll be obvious when they feel strongly about something

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 14h

However it manifests for you, there’s certainly people who’d appreciate you as you are. It is GENERALLY a good idea to “fake” responses when someone might be looking for more of a reaction or if it’s a professional or otherwise risky setting, but doing only that will result in people latching to a side of you that’s only there for maskings sake.

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